"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bravo to the Mature Man forum

Colossus

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I just have to say how refreshing it is to hear some actual LIFE WISDOM from older fellas who have made AFC mistakes. I spent almost a year in the regular forum and managed only to become an rAFC, only to return to AFC tendencies by focusing on one girl at a time. The other forums can serve a purpose, but it's nice to see legit posters instead of pimple-faced keyboard jockeys whining about every petty behavioral change in a girl, or flapping jaw about how he's the swingnest **** on the planet.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Agreed. You're never too old to learn something new, but I'd like to believe most of the older guys here have the basics down pat, and we're just here to work on points for style :woo:
 

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Originally posted by Colossus
I just have to say how refreshing it is to hear some actual LIFE WISDOM from older fellas who have made AFC mistakes. I spent almost a year in the regular forum and managed only to become an rAFC, only to return to AFC tendencies by focusing on one girl at a time. The other forums can serve a purpose, but it's nice to see legit posters instead of pimple-faced keyboard jockeys whining about every petty behavioral change in a girl, or flapping jaw about how he's the swingnest **** on the planet.

There's no stand-in for experience and life lessons. These younger Brothers don't understand nor can they comprehend what it is that us guys with age under our belts have gone through. But it doesn't stop these pimple poppers from trying to substitute what they see on tv to real life.

And thus, make azzes of themselves trying to give advice on issues while walking in untread shoes.



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