"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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a frigid girl does not need a ****blocker helping her, her anti-slut sheild is so dam high you will not be able to make a move on her, and if you give her attention she will think oh hes doing it to get with me, and ups the sheild by a notch.

heres the simple yet forgoten way to get with her. Get in to her circle of freinds show that you are confident and show charisma, give her only small amounts of attention, no more then any 1 else im talking treat her like a girl you have no intrest at all for.

she will not put up her sheild because you are not giving her anything to block just cary on with confidence and charisma like before and also being funny.

now that she has noticed you (but still may not make a move, you can never reliy on a girl doing so) start talking to her by chance, so when you are with freinds also talk just to her, but use a large amount of neg hitting this will not make her put up her sheild because it is not obvious you are moving in and as you are joking together it brings you closer.

once this is happening you drift closer together, once she knows you, you can pull out and she will start chasing you for attention and when you eventualy give it to her she will be glad and with no sheild so 1 day after giving her know attention for a few days to a weke or more how ever long it takes suddenly make a move on her, i dont mean ask her on a date i mean put your arm around her, kiss her, she will show no risistance and you can get close to her and aslong as you do not act AFC now, then you have got her.

The key is to get them to chase, keep this in mind and remember they can still put the sheild up latter so always keep an edge over her and make her work for your attention.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I just deleted the replies from here because, frankly, they had no bussiness. Chill out you two.
 

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Yeah, you're right "eternal". I nearly had an opinion on the post there for a second. Good job on pointing me in the right direction.
 

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Originally posted by jonny football hero
Yeah, you're right "eternal". I nearly had an opinion on the post there for a second. Good job on pointing me in the right direction.
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