Bragging

[TheGambino]

Okay guys don't bragg about the girls you f8cked in a city where most girls know eachother or have mutual friends. I was bragging to my friends about who I hooked up with and what goes around comes around.

I dont know if it's positive if girls talk about you going on dates with multiple girls and lying to them that the other girls your dating are not interesting.

My last hook up girl told me that I bragg too much about myself and coming off so overwhelming about myself and that I didn't change in that point, I guess its in my character.

Anyway I don't think its good to have that vibe around you that you date and f8ck girls and mutual friends of friends and go on. Girls will find you interesting but won't trust you because you bragg too much.

So I kept some hook ups and made out sessions discrete and that's what you should do. They will trust you that you won't expose them as a slut and come back for more.

Gimme your thoughts because in the city I live mostly the same people go to certain popular bars and clubs and the girls talk about guys and what they tell them and how long the D is and go on and exchange texts and go on.

 

[Bingo-Player]

always keep yourself to yourself in all walks of life

information is power and people will try to use against you at any given opportunity

also remember that a fool will speak because he has to say something

a wise man will only speak because he has something to say .......

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Bragging is a form of gossip. Gossip is employed by the insecure and the inadequate.

You have nothing to prove to anyone, except yourself. Accept yourself.

 

[Serenity]

Well, do you fvck girls to brag to your friends or do you fvck them because you like sex as much as (almost) everyone else? That's really a big difference.

Bragging about hook-ups achieves two things, first it let's everyone know you're a player and second they'll stay away to prevent getting reputation as a cheap slvt fvcking a player. Only some guys think it's cool for other guys to be players, only some! No women are impressed by it, to them it's just a massive red flag.

If you wonder if it's positive that girls talk about you to other girls in the context of you dating a lot of them. You should know it's not, they share this information as a warning that you're a player. A man who cares not for girls, only their genitals.

I will advise being discrete about your casual sex encounters, treat it as if it never happened.

 

[Trunks]

Agreed with above. Bragging shows insecurity and women will interpret it as supplication whether it is or not. Giving yourself a player reputation makes you look like the complete opposite or delusional. A reputation FROM women that you are a player is great for fast-tracking your seductions, as the pre-selection gives you an aura of being successful/a good lover.

 

[CMNILS87]

The one thing I worry about is dating a few different girls. If another girl see you out with another plate having fun just by a random chance it can effectively break a plate and she disappears or make a situation super awkward if confronted.

 

[TheGambino]

The one thing I worry about is dating a few different girls. If another girl see you out with another plate having fun just by a random chance it can effectively break a plate and she disappears or make a situation super awkward if confronted.

It depends. It happened to me last year. I went to a club with my plate I was dating. Another girl that I hooked up with and dated for like a year (we had no contact) showed up at the club randomly by chance. She ran intoo us and was really suprised and happy to see me. She was like a puppy, we didn't see eachother for a year. So I told her to sit down. The girl I was with that night was sitting at a table with her girls, she saw what happened and came over and became very mad. She was telling the security to remove my chick from the table and was very rude towards her. My old girl laughed it off and called her a whiny chick and told her to gtfo. I talked to the girl I was with and told her that I haven't seen her for a long time and I needed some time with her to catch up. I appeared very high value to both girls in this situation, I felt great too ofcourse, the whole club could see what was happening, Ill never forget. The old girl that came up randomly was very excited to see me and I ended up f8cking her after that night. We had a few more drinks that week but we are in no contact again.

The other girl was mad for a day and blowed up my phone the next evening.

I have to say both these girls are HB's that go with high class dudes with money and love to f8ck alpha males, they have a lot of male attention. I f8cked both of them already before this situation occured too.

For example: Now Im dating a new girl who got pumped and dumped a lot from what I heard and got hurt, Im not sure if she is going to like it if she sees me having a great time with a chick in a club. That could cause some drama and a lot of headaches to make her change her mind to meet up again, Im not sure. Its good to get a girl jealous but a less confident and high value girl will most likeley feel very jealous and probably cry over you and then do her best to move on from you. So im going to a club tommorow where she will be and I won't be hitting every girl up like I would with the other's from the past.