sylvester the cat
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You really should stop using him as such.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Brad Pitt is no longer the benchmark of female desirability
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Naughty NinjaDie Hard said:
SeymourCake
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Ryan Gosling.Die Hard said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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logicalleftyDie Hard said:
MillionBillionaire
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Nah It's that one dude that made batman a huge beta afc cuz he had sex with catwoman right before she handed him to Bane hahahahah typical woman... he is also on "The Notebook".. I think his name is Chris Something.
Die Hard said:
i would say Joseph Gordon Levitt. He is the guy from the movie Don Jon.
but like Brad Pitt, hes just another good looking mofo, so yeh, it is less about game and confidence and more about looks.
good Looks= confidence.
good Looks=Money
good looks = girls
good looks=charm.
Between_The_Lines
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David Beckham.Die Hard said:
Not sure if I've posted this link on here before, but don't leave Jared Leto behind. Check out his indifference to this hot ass interviewer's making it clear that she'd jump his bones right there, on the spot -
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lpsvxNB9zs8