"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Braces...

defiancy

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 15, 2004
Messages
298
Reaction score
0
Location
Rowland Heights, CA
I would never have thought I would get braces until today

man i wonder if that's goign to ruin some of my looks, but i dont think its really going to effect my game though

i'd have to wear it for two years...
I hope they're not that bad
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

M2k961

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 13, 2003
Messages
279
Reaction score
0
Location
NY
If you don't think they'll affect your game...

... Prepare for the biggest mindfcuk you've gotten in a while.
 

GlutusMaximus86

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 2, 2002
Messages
638
Reaction score
1
2 years is nothing, I had to wear braces for five years, had to get a total of 12 teeth removed in my life, and I had to get 2 "fake" teeth put in. Also you have to remember that in the end it all be worth it because you'll straight teeth and an excellent smile, and in the end that will help your game.
 

quest

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2003
Messages
1,176
Reaction score
0
depends on age..
if i was 18 or younger right now, i'd do it with mine..

and i've SERIOUSLY considered getting it done, been to the dentist and **** for examination about it.
been to a "invisalign" clinic - (look that up, if your teeth aren't to bad its seriously, invisible teeth straightening)
but u know what i've recently decided..

**** it..

the left side of my mouth, the teeth are near perfect, the right side of my mouth is crowded, and just off center 1 of the teeth grew in behind 2 other ones, (forcing 1 forward)..
i've been very self concious about it until a month or 2 ago..
it really doesn't matter much.

heres what one guy told me long ago when i posted about this.

"did kids tease you at school about it? - if they didn't its not that bad"

(something like that anyway)

and no, the kids didn't, but i've been self concious about it for so long i'd try and hide it when i smile, making me smile strangely etc.

ok, its not a smile that'll get me on TV, but its a smile that i'll still pick up HB8s with..
(once i get my body in shape i'm happy with, i got no doubts i'll be pulling HB9s)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Top