"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Braces affect my game?

MrGold

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Ive recently been to the dentist and they suggest that i have to get braces to fix my teeth! (Teeth arent so noticably bad, i hope) Yeh anyway, im going to uni next year and im worried if having braces is gonna make me look like a dikhead :eek: shud it affect my game? Or do girls avoid guys like me? I'm 6ft2, pretty gd lookin and have some muscle mass, which is why girls notice me alot. Now will having braces change that?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dilberto

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They may, for the time being(2yrs or so).......but the end result of having a perfectly straight grille will definitely contribute to your game.
 

Kidfabulous

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Think in the longterm. I had braces when I was a kid and it sucked balls having them, but damn, one of the best things that I've had done. It really pays off.
 

kdnash82

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I think having them will show that you actually care about yourself and are trying to improve. Where as someone with not so straight teeth will come across as the opposite.
 

Quiksilver

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Think about it this way...

Having braces affects your game for like, a year.

NOT having braces affects your game for like, the rest of your life.

What option would a wise man choose?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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