"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bra snapping = good kino?

PRiSM92289

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I think this is a good c/f move. A long time ago, a friend of mine who was a natural DJ freshmen year of HS would always snap bras of these hot chicks sitting infront of him and the giggled and ****.

Im not sure if it still works but I definetly want to try it, but Im not sure what level of comfort I would need in order to make it work and so the girl would slap me or look uncomfortable.

I think that if you got it off, this wuold definetly seperate you from the herd of nice guys out there as its kinda sexuall to snap it.

I have yet to field test it

Any comments on this or as anyone tried it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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cubed

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I have a feeling that this kind of kino will work because anybody who tries that would either be a person who is comfortable with himself or daring (both good). Last time, I saw this happening was in grade 8 (!), but I haven't really seen this in high school.

Like you said, this will definitely help you stick you from the nice guys, although I think this takes more nerve than other types of kino. While it seems possible that the girl will get angry, I don't think this is likely. If the girl isn't very comfortable with you, you will probably create an awkward scene. If you test, let us know how it goes.
 

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Imagine a girl you don't know giving you a wedgie, and try to think of how turned on you would be.
 

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Yes this type of C&f works great, don't over do it on te same girl though. (Maybe once or twice) I have a friend he did it to a whole table in lunch and he said 1 of the girls got jealous. Which makes it even better. The reason I said don't overdo it is because I did it to the girl, then was looking at photos with her then did it again, and then maybe 2 more times an she was like "Stop!" (In a little whiny girly voice) She always does that though so I don't know how accuracte it would be but I still had my arm around her so not sure how she felt.
 

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What level of comfort do you guys think is necesary for this, I can think of 1 SHB who would probably think its funny/cute about it but thats because I have a lot of rapport with her
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It all depends..a gentle snap..good..a full out pull and release..not so much.
 

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This could definitely get you hit with a sexual harassment complaint if you don't know the girl well enough.
 
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