Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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BPDs/HPDs, how do they mirror you?

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When I hang out with a BPD or HPD girl, I definitely feel like I have more in common with them than other girls.

People say this is due to them "mirroring the best aspects of your personality and that you are essentially attracted to yourself and not the BPD," but how? I never really could pick up on the mirroring...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's not as complex as psychiatrists make out. Basically they just copy what you like, the way a 10 year old copies his friends.
 
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They are usually very intuitive and bright girls. Which makes their ability to be manipulative that much easier. Every heard of someone who is just "too smart for their own good"? There you go. Personality wise they pick up on what kind of things you like, what you find funny, all that stuff. Then they feed it to you so you feel so "connected". Its all an act. One of the hardest things after being involved with a BPD is coming to terms with the fact that you were dealing with a chameleon. You thought that the two of you clicked so well, and that was because she acted in a way that made it seem like you clicked so well. The next guy she dates, she'll do the same thing.
 
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