BPD Women and their behavior questions...

[abe0]

I just had a BPD experience...great date you thing wow this one is into me ..this one is the one. Then over nothing....angry, misinterpreting things, and turns on you. Just curious....what is the pattern of these women...when you ignore them do they start coming back when they get back in their happy mood..or do they just disappear never to be heard from again. Just curious because I feel I was lucky to have discovered this within two weeks...and not months down the road.
Thanks in advance. Abe

 

[Driggs]

It's sort of interesting yes but forget her, dude, she's a nutball and you are very lucky it showed itself early.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

All of them aren't exactly the same, but most follow the same pattern. Which is:

-when they push you away & overreact to nothing, they will come rushing back as if nothing happened.

However, once they KNOW they have you emotionally invested, they usually move on to the next guy & will string you along UNLESS you man up and walk away.

Its definitely hard to resist this type of women because they are very seductive, usually very very attractive & are so into you when you are in God mode to them…haha


In the end it really doesn't matter what her deal is, all you need to realize is she is not good for you and wipe your hands clean of the situation.








PIMP

 

[Knight's Cross]

Abe,
It's really a topic that's been beaten ad nauseum on the forum. Go to the archives if you'd like to learn more. The best advice I can give is if your BS detector starts to go off with any chick than waive off. BPD or any other.
BPD's are just really good at figuring how to get into your head and mind-f'ing you.
Most guys that have experienced the roller coaster are amazed what it's like to date a normal chick again. It's night and day. Sure every chick has her quirks, and all women are some level of maintenance. BPD's are on a whole other level. I've dated 1 in my life.
The pattern I saw when I tossed her out of my life is that she tried really hard to get back in. It came in waves. My guess is that if some new guy figured out her BS and tossed her out too, then she'd ring up every guy she'd ever hoovered in, and retry her same old crap. I realized that I wasn't lucky when she'd try to recontact me, ohh no. It was all about her trying to recover from being tossed to the curb by another guy. That cycle went on for a couple years. Finally when she got married to some poor SOB she stopped calling me. It literally took that long.
Ignore them, and they will move to an easier victim.
KC

 

[abe0]

Thanks....

These women are soooo addicting. They do make you feel great.....I really do not want a roller coaster ride and from what I am reading they really can put you through hell. I was just wondering if these type of women just not call you back during non contact...or do they keep calling you back over and over again as they become the predator and you become the innocent prey.
Just curious.....I am in control of my destiny so I am not going to subject myself to this kind of abuse.
Thanks to all....Abe

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Abe,
Just walk away you will just get hurt!