BPD sorcery

[TonyBaloney]

Hi guys,

Just another cautionary word for current and future posters. There is something very creepy about the whole BPD thing, aside from being in the madness, being out of it can be quite tormenting too.

I've been out of my one for 26 months, and I'm still in recovery mode-constantly on high alert in my mind to never revisiting the stress and staying NC, avoidance techniques (as we live near)

It's seems to have come back in my mind a lot of late, and lo and behold I see her last night. I still feel the betrayal. It's a continual road to recovery. Unbelievable that I'm still affected-but that's the witchcraft of the BPD for you.....

 

[user name]

Exciting though, aren't they?

 

[El Suave]

I don't live close to mine. She still sends me an email once a week or so with stupid s*it from the news or who knows what. Sometimes I reply, other times I forget. I really DO NOT care. It's been 4-5 months I think since I've seen her. I think of her sometimes, in terms of "what is she doing, I hope she's ok", but never miss her. She will never get another chance in this lifetime with me. There are too many hot younger girls around me. I would be a fool to give them up for a 31 year old. There are times in life when it's good to be selfish and think about yourself.
Yeah, they are fun, but you can have fun in bed with any other chick about the same. Take charge and treat them in bed as they were that chick with BPD. I have never had a chick say they didn't like it. Bring out the nymph out of them :cheer:

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

This might help Tony:
http://therationalmale.com/2012/01/20/borderline-personality-disorder/

 

[Johnny Alias]

Just to speak of Cluster B's in general... of which I have dated 3...
1) One got fat... like she's twice the woman she used to be... and crazier... saw her out randomly one night and she gave my friend her number and proceeded to call me at 2am saying she was going to have to go home with a stranger if I didn't let her come over. I didn't call Shamu back. Broke up with her 8 years ago.

2) One got married, had a kid, and moved to another city... I don't think of her often at all anymore. Did look at her FB page out of curiousity and think having the kid and rich dude has helped her nutiness... for now... it will come back with time. She still looked hot but the hook is gone. She broke up with me... and cheated with me on her current husband... last saw her 5 years ago.

3) The most recent cluster b. I broke it off 4 months ago or so. She moved in with new dude immediately. Still got crazy PTSD with this one... but she's 43 and getting old while I'm still 5 years younger and a guy. According to sources she's drinking like crazy, popping pills, and embarassing herself constantly online and in public. People including friends are running from her. Still she moved far away. Just need to stay NC and bang, bang, bang hot chicks... and so far that's been AWESOME therapy.

You'll get there. Therapy and dumping the baby gravy will help... especially if they are hotter than the ex.