"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Chamber36

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This girl told me she missed me and wanted to come to my house. I initially refused to accept her number, but I took it lol.

Now I am wondering whether or not I should call her because I dunno if it's gonna bring me trouble or if we could just have some simple n easy fun. She's not to smart so she couldn't manipulate me, but I don't want this girl falling in love with me or nothing like that.

Edit: Fvck it I sent the text. I still dunno for sure what to do with her though. She seems kinda crazy. If I was on holiday I wouldn't hesitate for this type of girl. But I am not sure what to do.

What do you guys think about banging girls who probably have emotional baggage?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do you know what BPD, borderline personality disorder, is? Or are you mistaking it for a SS term, like AFC? Is she diagnosed?
 

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Well no actually. In fact she was sexually abused, and her excited behavior when she saw me sort of...... was a red flag.....

It's just too bad. Because she looks good.
 

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Chamber36 said:
Well no actually. In fact she was sexually abused, and her excited behavior when she saw me sort of...... was a red flag.....

It's just too bad. Because she looks good.
Never trust a girl who confides her "sexual abuse" history before she even knows you.

Although, that definitely does go along with your theory that she's crazy. Every crazy girl I know has some "I was sexually abused" story. It's like a badge of honor for those chicks.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Chamber36 said:
This girl told me she missed me and wanted to come to my house. I initially refused to accept her number, but I took it lol.

Now I am wondering whether or not I should call her because I dunno if it's gonna bring me trouble or if we could just have some simple n easy fun. She's not to smart so she couldn't manipulate me, but I don't want this girl falling in love with me or nothing like that.

Edit: Fvck it I sent the text. I still dunno for sure what to do with her though. She seems kinda crazy. If I was on holiday I wouldn't hesitate for this type of girl. But I am not sure what to do.

What do you guys think about banging girls who probably have emotional baggage?
If she is BPD she can and will manipulate you. It is what they do. It is how they live. She's been doing it all her life. It doesn't matter whether she's smart or not. She has acquired the needed skill. It's like driving a car to her. A moron can drive a car. Years and years of doing this will have made her a master manipulator.

The only way you can prevent being manipulated is going through a BPD relationship yourself, recognise the signs and realise that you cannot trust her. Even then she'll try to make your life miserable. Best to just stay away from this woman. If you don't, you deserve all the misery you get.
 

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It's funny how the new "PUA" term is BPD. You guys probably don't even know the definition. Do what you want to the girl. If she is a slut I really don't see her getting attached at all. How exactly is this going to bring you trouble?
 

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Mantis Toboggan said:
Never trust a girl who confides her "sexual abuse" history before she even knows you.
Well she didn't confess it to me. She told my gay friend about 5 years back when they were "dating".

Well she seems pretty dam crazy. I guess I'll invite her over when my mama ain't home.
 

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Hold on there bud you're thinking waaayy too far ahead. Are you trying to fvck her or to make her your gf?
If you're trying to fvck her, then do so and then ignore her.
The only question then is how easy will it be avoid her after you fvck her?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Johnnyventana said:
Ironic yes, since a lot of dudes found this board because of actual BPD chicks.
No, people found the board because they were not man enough and got manipulated by a female.

Chamber36 said:
Well she didn't confess it to me. She told my gay friend about 5 years back when they were "dating".

Well she seems pretty dam crazy. I guess I'll invite her over when my mama ain't home.
If she is crazy why would you invite her to your mom's house? Times can't be that slow for you? Are they?
 

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If she is crazy why would you invite her to your mom's house? Times can't be that slow for you? Are they?

lol. Well I figured we would just watch a movie and drink some wine and see where it goes from there. She said she wanted to come over.

I just gotta wait for my mom to leave so she doesn't think I'm crazy.
 

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No, people found the board because they were not man enough and got manipulated by a female.
Or they wanted to know what the F just happened. Scandalous girls are good at what they do, because they don't know that they're doing it. That's important to note. Manipulation is easy. Transparent. It's not manipulation. It's a mind ****.

OP. Pound and move on.
 

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Sad but true & a shout to ALEXDP

Johnnyventana said:
Ironic yes, since a lot of dudes found this board because of actual BPD chicks.
God this statement freaks the fook out of me, the thought of how I got to SS. These beasts are crazy.

I wanna give a huge shout out to ALEXDP and other writers on this satanism that is BDP. These guys are trying their hardest to make alot of us BDP victims realize what murky water we're in with these uber witches.

OP If you havent followed how FOOOKED like mad some men have been, to the point of suicide with these master manipulators, then your a lost cause.

I have had my life destroyed by one - thank god I am getting over it after months and months of agony - I still think I got a long way to go
 

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any back story on this b1tch?
Ever since I found this site I like hearing others crazy ass stories. It somehow makes me feel better. I got taken for the ol' okie doke by one of these hoes. if there are any signs, back away. Slowly. Make no sudden movements as to agitate her. Then when you get far enough away, run. But theres no way you could know if she was BPD unless you had first hand knowledge, I believe. And cross reference with the links on this page. It is still no even clear to me what happened to me in my situ. The big thing is not caring though. You obviously dont care about her so it might not matter, yet. Ever seen Fatal Attraction?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Handsfull said:
any back story on this b1tch?
Ever since I found this site I like hearing others crazy ass stories. It somehow makes me feel better. I got taken for the ol' okie doke by one of these hoes. if there are any signs, back away. Slowly. Make no sudden movements as to agitate her. Then when you get far enough away, run. But theres no way you could know if she was BPD unless you had first hand knowledge, I believe. And cross reference with the links on this page. It is still no even clear to me what happened to me in my situ. The big thing is not caring though. You obviously dont care about her so it might not matter, yet. Ever seen Fatal Attraction?
fatal atraction is epic.
 
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