"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bpds are the craziest bishes..

Yall might remember my thread were my bpd ex sent me that
Email after 2 years of no contact.

Well its funny that she sent that email the same day I deleted
My facebook page.

I get my page back up 1 week later then I deleted again a week later to see watt she does and she ends up deleting hers 2 days later after I deleted mine. Lol
She has a bf now but regardless I strongly believe she spy's on
Me and checks up on me trying to see wtf I'm doing every single day. Hahahah
Bish is fvcken weird. Can't believe she went to the point of even deleting her facebook.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Stop giving a fvck, and looking at her sh!t. For christs sake, stop yourself man. It's been two years, stop it. stop caring. Move on.

Edit.

Not trying to be a d!ck man. But it will benefit you a lot. I hate seeing a man go through pain because a woman fvcked with his head and emotions.
 
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Jair213 said:
Bpds are the craziest bishes..

Yall might remember my thread were my bpd ex sent me that
Email after 2 years of no contact.

Well its funny that she sent that email the same day I deleted
My facebook page.

I get my page back up 1 week later then I deleted again a week later to see watt she does and she ends up deleting hers 2 days later after I deleted mine. Lol
She has a bf now but regardless I strongly believe she spy's on
Me and checks up on me trying to see wtf I'm doing every single day. Hahahah
Bish is fvcken weird. Can't believe she went to the point of even deleting her facebook.
2 years ago. seriously?
 

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If she is legit or diagnosed bpd or if you even suspect it RUN LIKE HELL.
 

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Driggs said:
If she is legit or diagnosed bpd or if you even suspect it RUN LIKE HELL.
There arent any legit diagnoses for most of the supposed cases mentioned on this forum by internet armchair psychologists. Basically for many guys here, if the girl gives them an ounce of drama, she must be BPD lol. It couldnt be any actual incompatibilities in their personalities or anything like that.

That said, OP why the fvck do you care? The other guys are right. ITS BEEN LONG ENOUGH. Move on and stop caring.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My best friend. His ex would cheat on him and cheat on him, and she was the best looking girl he had been with at the time. Everytime he tried to break up with her for being a liar and cheating, she would get crazy, he has scars from her attacking him. One time I let them both come and stay at my house, and my one older sister was home, but my parents were gone.

I heard some commotion downstairs, when I went down, I got them in view, saw her slap him in the face, and then he did a double leg take down.

I was like awww mother fvckers.

My sister came down, and immediatly thought the girl was a victim, took her up in the master bedroom, and but her in my parents bed.

My buddy started walking home, I went to my parents room, and the cvnt asked me where is he? I said, hes walking home, her response was, I'm going to hit him with my car. So I called him, and told him whats up.

So this cvnt would cheat on him all the time, and when he tried to end it she would get real crazy, violent many times. That is bdp.

My buddy let it get to him, and eventually ended up living in north Chicago doing heroin living on the streets.

he picked up a needle from a walgreens bathroom garbage can and used it, I said "man you could have got hiv" he just looked at me like, i did heroin.

He was a nice guy, he is smart to. But he lets some bdp **** his head up.

He is clean now, doing well.
 

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It's true that a lot of these diagnoses are bull**** but a nontrivial fraction of females are in fact bpd. Moreover, if someone performs a "street diagnosis" of a woman with a bunch of ****ed up flaws and dumps her as a result that can only be a good thing.
 

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Bro's I absolutely dont freaken care about this hoe at all. WTF. I am over this trick.
The only reason why I noticed something about this was because the day I deactivated my FB
she sent that E-mail. So that made me think ''this slvt is definately keeping tabs on me''
witch I dont give a fvck. Just thought it was something interesting to bring up, as I am enjoying
every second of it cuz I know her hampster is spinning.

Now did I diagnose her as a BPD? Would you diagnose her as a BPD?
Well let me tell you watts worse than a BPP or a CLUSTER B.

Here you go fellas.

In the time span of our 3 year relationship.

She aborted 2 other times witch I didnt know about.(Found out later)
The 3rd time she aborted I was with her. I didnt want her to abort
but she still did and guess who took her to the clinic to abort ths kid that was mine?(witch I am pretty dure it wasnt)
The guy she use to claim that rape her and abused her. Her excuse?
''She didnt have a ride'' Thats some twisted sh!tt.

The first time she broke up with me she went to florida to see her ex bf.
His mom was dying of cancer. She was there to be with him and confort him.
All of a suddent she gives me a call telling me she wants to get back with me.(while at the same time she got
back in a relationship with this dude)
And I had no Idea she was in florida with him.
She comes back to California. We see each other that same night I Fvck the sh!t
out of her while shes receiving texts from this dude
from florida texting her how bad his mom is doing, etc. Fvck tup sh!tt isnt it?

Oh you havent heard nothing yet.

Her suposedly good friend, a brother to her was fvcking her also.(caught her receiving pics of this dudes dic
via text, etc) She brought him around often to chill. Fvcked him in my own bed.
She fvcked some dude for money at the early stages of us dating because she couldnt pay
her phone bill.(we kissed a lot that day after i just hope she didnt svck his dic lol)
she was fvcking this other dude that was good friends with one of my buddys good friends.
she kept fvcking that other dude that she claimed that rape her and bused her and forced her to do things with him
sexually. She sometimes ask for money and guess who she gave the money too? To this rapist. LOL
She told me once that one of her mom's BF's got her naked once or else he was going to hurt her mom
so she coaporated to his demands.
Found out she was also fvcking one of her middle school teachers. I guess they did it when she use to tell me
that she was going to head out to his house in help of a ''school project''
She was the master of manipulation. She was sick in the head, nasty tempers, outbursts of angryness.
Whenever she got mad she will not talk to me for like a day or 2. She will have the scariest mood swings.
One day she'll be happy the next day a total b!tch about everything and anything.
She will say stuff like 'i wanna have my kids with you' then a couple of days later she would change her mind
and be like 'oh ugh i dont want any kids'
The final break up was when I dragged her out some guy's apartment she had told me it was going to be a
gathering of old friends but guess watt? when i went to go get her she was alone with this one dude, found
her pissed drunk on his sofa by him while he was playing ps3 she had vommited all over the place.
I think he fvcked her also.

She was the most disrepectful human being Ive ever known.

She did all this sh!t but whenever she caught me looking at a girl in the street she use to get jealous
and feel bad and tell me to respect her. LOL I swear if I see her again im gonna fvckin smack this slut.

and after me finding out all of this sh!t at the end guess watt she told me? I dont fvcken care watt I
did to you
.

The main dude behind all of this was the dude she claimed that rape her and abused her.
She blaimed this dude for her behavior but she still felt that she ''loved him'' and that
things were never gonna work out with me were because she loved this dude and was confused.
All along she loved the rapists and abuser.

She went back with him. As crazy as that sounds I was fvcken demolish.

She blinded me by putting the blame on this dude all along making me see that she was the victim. SMH
 

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Haha!

Sounds like BPD to me and if it's not it's close enough for government work. I would dump a woman after any one of those incidents. Now I would even dump her if I even heard ****ed up shiite like that come out of her mouth.
 

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Jair213 said:
Bro's I absolutely dont freaken care about this hoe at all. WTF. I am over this trick.
The only reason why I noticed something about this was because the day I deactivated my FB
she sent that E-mail. So that made me think ''this slvt is definately keeping tabs on me''
witch I dont give a fvck. Just thought it was something interesting to bring up, as I am enjoying
every second of it cuz I know her hampster is spinning.

Now did I diagnose her as a BPD? Would you diagnose her as a BPD?
Well let me tell you watts worse than a BPP or a CLUSTER B.

Here you go fellas.

In the time span of our 3 year relationship.

She aborted 2 other times witch I didnt know about.(Found out later)
The 3rd time she aborted I was with her. I didnt want her to abort
but she still did and guess who took her to the clinic to abort ths kid that was mine?(witch I am pretty dure it wasnt)
The guy she use to claim that rape her and abused her. Her excuse?
''She didnt have a ride'' Thats some twisted sh!tt.

The first time she broke up with me she went to florida to see her ex bf.
His mom was dying of cancer. She was there to be with him and confort him.
All of a suddent she gives me a call telling me she wants to get back with me.(while at the same time she got
back in a relationship with this dude)
And I had no Idea she was in florida with him.
She comes back to California. We see each other that same night I Fvck the sh!t
out of her while shes receiving texts from this dude
from florida texting her how bad his mom is doing, etc. Fvck tup sh!tt isnt it?

Oh you havent heard nothing yet.

Her suposedly good friend, a brother to her was fvcking her also.(caught her receiving pics of this dudes dic
via text, etc) She brought him around often to chill. Fvcked him in my own bed.
She fvcked some dude for money at the early stages of us dating because she couldnt pay
her phone bill.(we kissed a lot that day after i just hope she didnt svck his dic lol)
she was fvcking this other dude that was good friends with one of my buddys good friends.
she kept fvcking that other dude that she claimed that rape her and bused her and forced her to do things with him
sexually. She sometimes ask for money and guess who she gave the money too? To this rapist. LOL
She told me once that one of her mom's BF's got her naked once or else he was going to hurt her mom
so she coaporated to his demands.
Found out she was also fvcking one of her middle school teachers. I guess they did it when she use to tell me
that she was going to head out to his house in help of a ''school project''
She was the master of manipulation. She was sick in the head, nasty tempers, outbursts of angryness.
Whenever she got mad she will not talk to me for like a day or 2. She will have the scariest mood swings.
One day she'll be happy the next day a total b!tch about everything and anything.
She will say stuff like 'i wanna have my kids with you' then a couple of days later she would change her mind
and be like 'oh ugh i dont want any kids'
The final break up was when I dragged her out some guy's apartment she had told me it was going to be a
gathering of old friends but guess watt? when i went to go get her she was alone with this one dude, found
her pissed drunk on his sofa by him while he was playing ps3 she had vommited all over the place.
I think he fvcked her also.

She was the most disrepectful human being Ive ever known.

She did all this sh!t but whenever she caught me looking at a girl in the street she use to get jealous
and feel bad and tell me to respect her. LOL I swear if I see her again im gonna fvckin smack this slut.

and after me finding out all of this sh!t at the end guess watt she told me? I dont fvcken care watt I
did to you
.

The main dude behind all of this was the dude she claimed that rape her and abused her.
She blaimed this dude for her behavior but she still felt that she ''loved him'' and that
things were never gonna work out with me were because she loved this dude and was confused.
All along she loved the rapists and abuser.

She went back with him. As crazy as that sounds I was fvcken demolish.

She blinded me by putting the blame on this dude all along making me see that she was the victim. SMH

Well western women are pretty ruthless regardless these days. Its possible she has bpd. Regardless she sounds like a cvnt. You should block her email address so if she emails you ,you wont even know. Block her on everything.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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