"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BPD girl who won't go away when i've had enough of her

Infern0

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But yet when i actually want her around she's as scarce as refined diamonds or some shizz

had enough of her BS so trying to slow fade away from her and all of a sudden she just "has to see me"

(after ducking me for the last two weeks when i had nothing on and actually was down to see her)

Annoying little goblins they are.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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El Payaso

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Crazy b!tch.
 

GS750

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^^ This. The only way to deal with a BPD, or unstable woman, is to go No Contact. None. Zero. Zilch. Delete her number and if you need to, block her.
 
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