Boys, men and girls

[Mr.Eccentric]

Hey so suave, firstly I just want to say what an exellent community filled with great advice.

So I was your typical beta but I have been studying the bibal here and working on improving myself. I was thinking about why women cheat and why there hypergamy which quickly brought me to the concluson that it stems from weakness, mentaly and physically. Then it occurd to me females never really grow up and they just stay girls for there entire life.

So I got to thinking males start out as boys relying on there dad and mum, but as they grow up they become a new creature, a man. I think of it like a butterly, it starts out as somthing ugly but becomes somthing beautiful. Now to females, I think they start as girls and never become a new creature and women are just more world weary girls. They just change from relying on there dad to there husband.

Does that make sence? What do you think?

 

[j.619]

Generally, they stay the same. It's a combination of a lack of logic... and emotional-driven thinking that keeps them that way. It's not their fault.

The smart ones go from dad to boyfriend/husband. The dumb ones become lesbians and feminists.

 

[Mr.Eccentric]

J your right it's not there fault, they need us it's a compliment really. I think I get what pook was trying to say. Men go after what they want and women worry if there good enough for a man.

 

[TheException]

I was thinking about why women cheat and why there hypergamy which quickly brought me to the concluson that it stems from weakness, mentaly and physically. Then it occurd to me females never really grow up and they just stay girls for there entire life.
Does that make sence? What do you think?

The "jist" of your post is alright....women definitely are different from men and respond emotionally, not logically.

However this quote above stood out to me. You think women cheat because they are physically weak? There are two main reasons women cheat....none of which are because they cant bench press 225lb.

1.) They are wh0res. Period. They are overall a sh1tty person with no real value system for their "currency".....which is sex.

2.) The women become unattracted/uninterested in their boyfriend. Usually through repeated beta chump actions that dry up her vag1na. Doesnt take much to sleep with a girl in this sort of emotional state.

 

[Mr. Kalikoat]

The dumb ones become lesbians.

Last time I checked, sexual orientation is not a choice nor is it linked to intelligence or knowledge.

 

[Serenity]

I disagree. You can easily put labels like boy, men, girl, women on people, but it won't help you to generalize in any case. Basically you're saying girls are needy, this is the feature of BPD's which we want to avoid right?!

Women cheat for a variety of reasons, mostly because their boyfriend is a piece of sh!t and not worth their time. A woman with integrity though would break up with you before sleeping with another guy, still the reasons would be the same. The underlying reason for cheating is lack of courage (balls, lol) to break up.

There are women who are self-reliant without being feminists or twisted in any way, they are not that rare either. I think the problem many guys on here have is that they fail to recognize it, and don't know where and how to find them.

What you all have to stop doing is putting people in dumbed down categories and learn to evalute on a person to person basis. Women value love, if you don't have it you can't give it, if you can't give it they treat you like sh!t, you won't have it before you love yourself.

 

[Mr.Eccentric]

The Exception let me explain what I ment a bit more. Women rely on there emotions to make decicions making them less reliable in dangerous situations (not that they are incapable) and there not as strong, so back when the world was forrest and we were hunter gatherers (we are programed by our genetics to live in that enviroment, not towns and cities) they would need a man to fend off that wolf or other threat and bring them food. I belive this may cause an inbult, driving, subconscious worry for women of "am I good enough to get a man who can look after me?". This causes hypergamy as they are allways wondering if they can get a man good enough to protect them and when presented with an oppurtunity to move up and get a better protector they usualy will.

Men however are less hypergamy because we need to build ourselfs, improve and become men (change from boys to men) to get women. We go after what we want even if it takes work, women are used to having it given to them (the man goes out and hunts the food).

Make sence?

 

[3agle 3yes]

I was thinking about why women cheat and why there hypergamy which quickly brought me to the concluson that it stems from weakness, mentaly and physically. Then it occurd to me females never really grow up and they just stay girls for there entire life....So I got to thinking males start out as boys relying on there dad and mum, but as they grow up they become a new creature, a man....Now to females, I think they start as girls and never become a new creature and women are just more world weary girls. They just change from relying on there dad to there husband.

There are several problems with your post OP.

1) BOTH men and women cheat and they are for the SAME reasons...WEAKNESS.

2) BOTH men and women on average never really "grow up". Many men are pvssies and allow women and society to dictate them.

In some countries they STILL have rituals where young boys travel with the fathers (brothers, older men etc) and apparently return as men...this doesn't happen in most countries (anymore?).

3) Many men rely on women (emotionally) just as much as women do.

However, there are men (and some women too) who break this mould.

 

[j0504s]

Hey so suave, firstly I just want to say what an exellent community filled with great advice.

So I was your typical beta but I have been studying the bibal here and working on improving myself. I was thinking about why women cheat and why there hypergamy which quickly brought me to the concluson that it stems from weakness, mentaly and physically. Then it occurd to me females never really grow up and they just stay girls for there entire life.

So I got to thinking males start out as boys relying on there dad and mum, but as they grow up they become a new creature, a man. I think of it like a butterly, it starts out as somthing ugly but becomes somthing beautiful. Now to females, I think they start as girls and never become a new creature and women are just more world weary girls. They just change from relying on there dad to there husband.

Does that make sence? What do you think?

This is a very interesting point you make, but I do feel it is not entirely true. Girl can Become Women. This is based on the willingness to learn Vs. Adapt (acceptance) as well as Nature nurture factor.

A lot of "Girls" act in certain ways b/c they would rather adapt/be accepted then actually be happy. this is two fold b/c A. they want to feel validated and B. (nature Nurture) they have someone to run to to fix their problems.

Now "Women" These are female willing to make something of themselves (this doesn't not mean she is feminist or a lesbian even though I love girls who love girls ) She chooses willingness to become, not just go with the flow. They learned vs acted spoiled.....There is a lot more id like to elaborate on but im at work so maybe later but this is the gyst

 

[j.619]

Last time I checked, sexual orientation is not a choice nor is it linked to intelligence or knowledge.

I completely respect your opinion on this, but my opinion differs.

 

[Mr.Eccentric]

Now "Women" These are female willing to make something of themselves (this doesn't not mean she is feminist or a lesbian even though I love girls who love girls ) She chooses willingness to become, not just go with the flow. They learned vs acted spoiled.....There is a lot more id like to elaborate on but im at work so maybe later but this is the gyst

This is interesting I look forward to what you have to say. Mayby a girl becoms a woman when she stops doing what society tells her and truly accepts herself and what her biology tells her to do (similar to a beta putting a mask on and trying to make a woman like him, instead of being a man and letting her like him). In this respect a femenist could never be a woman because they deny there biology and try to be men.

 

[j.619]

In this respect a femenist could never be a woman because they deny there biology and try to be men.

I genuinely believe this. Emasculating men is the least feminine thing a woman is capable of, outside of becoming a man.

 

[Serenity]

A lot of "Girls" act in certain ways b/c they would rather adapt/be accepted then actually be happy. this is two fold b/c A. they want to feel validated and B. (nature Nurture) they have someone to run to to fix their problems.

I see a few holes here. You actually have to learn to adapt. Being accepted makes you happy. There's several factors playing into this. Approval seekers ("girls") go for quantity, a woman goes for quality. A girl makes you fix more and more of her problems, a woman have learned enough to return the favor to get more favors. A girl will make you feel bad if you don't give her what she demands, a woman will make you feel good about doing it for her and respect a no without need for explanation once in a while. A girl is selfish, a woman actually cares.

This goes pretty much for boys/men as well. Taking something is normal, giving something is normal. The approximate ratio between the two is what matters, and some give more than they take blindly (nice guys). Ideally both give what they get though by their own motivation, just because it's right.

By learning to become many get the side-effect of being accepted though, but being accepted is just a part of it. Simply because you have a hard time becoming anything if nobody likes you.

 

[j0504s]

I see a few holes here. You actually have to learn to adapt. Being accepted makes you happy. There's several factors playing into this. Approval seekers ("girls") go for quantity, a woman goes for quality. A girl makes you fix more and more of her problems, a woman have learned enough to return the favor to get more favors. A girl will make you feel bad if you don't give her what she demands, a woman will make you feel good about doing it for her and respect a no without need for explanation once in a while. A girl is selfish, a woman actually cares.

This goes pretty much for boys/men as well. Taking something is normal, giving something is normal. The approximate ratio between the two is what matters, and some give more than they take blindly (nice guys). Ideally both give what they get though by their own motivation, just because it's right.

By learning to become many get the side-effect of being accepted though, but being accepted is just a part of it. Simply because you have a hard time becoming anything if nobody likes you.

We are saying similar things but, where we differ is, Adapting is conforming and not beating to your own drum. For example, I don't dress a certain style I have my own style. I don't identify with a group I identify with J0504S, My integrity is not to be compromised b/c I have good moral and I know whats right vs Wrong. I think someone who tries to be a certain way aka adapt is a product of doing what society tells them. Lets say a female wants to buy a pair of jeans but her friends say they are not cool. So she doesn't, She isn't buying them b/c her friend doesn't not accept that article of clothing. When in reality she likes it and looks good in it. People take the simple way to feel comfortable vs being truly happy (doing what you know is right, integrity/self worth). PPl who conform don't reach the level of happiness i speak of...I am j0504s I am the prize and you would be lucky to date me ( this is my mindset)...just my 2 cents