"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Boys in the Orange County, South L.A. hit me up!

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Sup PUA's, I'm in Huntington Beach! Anyone near Newport, Irvine, Fullerton, Long Beach and anywhere near those area hit me up.

Title says it all.

Looking for a wing or two to run some day game. I'm near Huntington Beach but open to pick up pretty much anywhere.

Don't really care about your experience just be willing to do approaches.

About me: 2 + years day game - non pro experience as a coach

Let's get a PUA team rolling, stop being a chode muffin and PM me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheCWord

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I think you're on the wrong forum. This isn't a PUA community.

This is a community for the guys who actually get girls - while the "PUAs" are busy talking about dating/gaming like it's a sport and trying to put teams of men together using the internet (whole thing sounds a little gay to me, to be honest).
 

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TheCWord said:
I think you're on the wrong forum. This isn't a PUA community.

This is a community for the guys who actually get girls - while the "PUAs" are busy talking about dating/gaming like it's a sport and trying to put teams of men together using the internet (whole thing sounds a little gay to me, to be honest).
this
 

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I willing to bet most of the guys on here don't actually get girls so give the guy a break. At least he is trying in real life, probably a lot more than most people here.
 

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This is more of a "lifestyle" forum, to make yourself more attractive to girls, so they approach you/you become the prize type of style. Your better off going to #1 PUA or RSD for the chasing girls in the malls and clubs like the girls are the prize type of thing(which is expensive by the way). RSD is a better forum than this one don't get me wrong, but how some dudes try to break Pickup down to a science is just wack IMO.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheCWord

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Hustlaz Ambition said:
This is more of a "lifestyle" forum, to make yourself more attractive to girls, so they approach you/you become the prize type of style.
Yeah, PUA "tactics" just seem like so much work for little reward but a lot of doucheyness. Plus, women are attuned to that stuff now. Maybe cheesy lines and strategies had more effect back in 2000 when PUA wasn't a mainstream term - but now girls are in on the joke and can immediately pick out a guy as a try-hard.

That said, I'm sure you could pick up some low quality, real dumb girls with that stuff. So have it em, if that's your thing.


jaygreenb said:
I willing to bet most of the guys on here don't actually get girls so give the guy a break.
Also true :)
 

Hustlaz Ambition

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TheCWord said:
Yeah, PUA "tactics" just seem like so much work for little reward but a lot of doucheyness. Plus, women are attuned to that stuff now. Maybe cheesy lines and strategies had more effect back in 2000 when PUA wasn't a mainstream term - but now girls are in on the joke and can immediately pick out a guy as a try-hard.

That said, I'm sure you could pick up some low quality, real dumb girls with that stuff. So have it em, if that's your thing.




Also true :)
Holy sh!t, tell me about it. When I went clubbing in ATL most if not all the girls stood in the back of the dance floor. If they ever did touch the dance floor they mad sure to hold hands with somebody. Chodes was EVERYWHERE, it was a damn sausage fest. I asked somebody why was it so many dudes in here, then she told me girls do this in ATL because they do not want some "ugly ass dude to get on 'me". I thought a big city was going to have more sets of girls in the club, but looks like the PUA ruined night game in big city's. Since guys move out to big city's JUST to do pickup(lol) because the PUA tell them to. I'm sticking to mid-sized city game from now on. Just can't do night game in a big city it seems. Daygame is probably great.
 
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