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This is a little summary of the book I've started reading . I believe it's an important topic that all men should be aware of, and what really made it hit home was how scientific it is, backed up by research, statistics, numerous studies, etc. The author is a medical doctor, so this book is presented in a very logical way free of conjecture and theorizing.Something scary is happening to boys today. From kindergarten to college, they are less resilient and less ambitious than they were a mere twenty years ago. As for young men, it turns out the film Failure to Launch is not far from the truth. Fully one-third of men ages 22-34 are still living at home with their parents--about a 100 percent increase in the past twenty years. Boys nationwide are increasingly dropping out of school; fewer are going to college; and for the first time in American history, women are outnumbering men at undergraduate institutions three to two.
Parents, teachers, and mental health professionals are worried about boys. But until now, no one has come up with good reasons for their decline--and, more important, with workable solutions to reverse this troubling trend. Now, family physician and research psychologist Dr. Leonard Sax delves into the scientific literature and draws on his vast clinical experience to propose an entirely original view of why boys and young men are failing in school and at home. He argues that a combination of social, cultural, and biological factors is creating an environment that is literally toxic to boys, ranging from environmental estrogens to the over-prescription of ADHD drugs. And he presents practical solutions--from new ways of controlling boys' use of video games, to innovative (and workable) education reforms.
What really made it hit home for me was how classic a case I am of what he's describing. In grade one I was prescribed with ritalin because 'apparently' I had ADD and ADHD(took it every day from grades one through six). But for one or two good years here and there, I've underperformed my entire way through school, and seem to lack an internal drive and ambition to succeed in society. What's more, this book isn't written in truisms that most gimmick "you have a problem" books are written in. It's strictly observing current and past trends, and presenting a case.
To sum the book up in one sentence from what I've read, it's essentially about: The progression of boys becoming feminine and girls becoming masculine.
Who's interested in picking this book up? In a few weeks time we can start a book review on here.
The book is:
Boys Adrift by Leonard Sax, it'll only set you back $20.
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