“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DesertsFox

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My friends and I were in this bar on thursday. THis place serves food. The waitress is a total hotty and i bet my friend that i will bang her by the end of the semester. IN either case, i decide to get the show on so i start hitting on her. The only condition of the bet is that its off if she has a boyfriend. So i start pulling my game on this chick and its going well, then seh boyfriend derails me. So i just look calm as anything in her eyes smile, and go 'You should cheat on him', she starts out laughing and then goes, well it is a long distance relationship =). IN either case. Im convinced ill get her in bed, the point of this thread thing is to all the people that look at a girl saying the word boyfriend as some kind of a locked door. Just ignore that **** or use it for C & F.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

BGMan

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LOL at Titsman!

Heck, even my mom once told me, when I didn't try to connect with a girl because she had a BF, that "that doesn't mean anything".

Also, if you find that she has a BF from a third party but she never tells YOU (or only casually -- and rarely -- refers to the BF as "my friend X") then she may be using the chump BF as a shield to keep off guys she doesn't want. Think of It's a Wonderful Life. I have a very similar situation going on here (except that I don't know the chump BF).

A second girl I know who mentioned having a BF a while back still kept giving me buying signals so I got her number. The only problem with her is that she's seldom home at the hours at which I tend to call (I generally don't leave messages).

The ONLY time I back off is when she says she has a boyfriend when I ask for her number OR when I call and ask her out (some girls will give you their number then bring up having a BF or being engaged when you call them ... rather annoying, it's happened to me four times in the past year!).

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You don't know the guy, and she says its long distance, he aint a bro. "Bros b4 hos" doesn't apply in this case.
Keep on going on working that booty!
 
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