Monkey
Master Don Juan
My current girl and I have been going out for four months now. She ticks all the boxes - extremely loving, giving, devoted, makes me feel like a king etc.
Our relationship is pretty much 'perfect'.
Over the last few days we'd been talking about going for a hike on Saturday, however today she tells me one of her best (girl) friends called her up last night and asked her to get together on Saturday for a girly afternoon and gf agreed.
She told me about it this afternoon, that this friend doesn't like being told no. I asked why she couldn't have said she had other plans but "you can't say no to her" she says.
Now I 1000% know this is genuine situation, shes not losing interest, cheating or anything else. However shes not seen these friends for a while and I don't want her to forget them.
Guess she thought it would be easier to cancel on me than let her good friend down.
I feel a little let down that she couldn't have been more firm and tell this friend we had plans.
Now do I let this go and maybe seem a pushover or cause a fuss and sound posessive and possibly create bad feelings from her friend?
Our relationship is pretty much 'perfect'.
Over the last few days we'd been talking about going for a hike on Saturday, however today she tells me one of her best (girl) friends called her up last night and asked her to get together on Saturday for a girly afternoon and gf agreed.
She told me about it this afternoon, that this friend doesn't like being told no. I asked why she couldn't have said she had other plans but "you can't say no to her" she says.
Now I 1000% know this is genuine situation, shes not losing interest, cheating or anything else. However shes not seen these friends for a while and I don't want her to forget them.
Guess she thought it would be easier to cancel on me than let her good friend down.
I feel a little let down that she couldn't have been more firm and tell this friend we had plans.
Now do I let this go and maybe seem a pushover or cause a fuss and sound posessive and possibly create bad feelings from her friend?