Boyfriend doesn't matter

[Remulak]

G/F = Full-time hor!!! It is of no significance to most!!!

Last Man Standing = Funniest poster ever

But seriously though the real question is where's the line between being a womanizer and being a pyssy nice guy with no back bone?

 

[Raikojo17]

So, DJSlut, what ur saying, a single girl whom maybe tired of dating/only wants to have casual sex...who has stability....is worth less than a girl that's taken? Sorry...but this is pathetic.

A girl is a girl. Sure, as a whole, taken girls might be easier to interact with since they don't have to worry about finding a man...so they feel more security in their lives and safe....but in no way are they any better than single girls. So what ur saying is that attractive single girls don't hold candles to girls who are in a relationship?

Also factor in that a girl who's single will think about you much much more, since she has u, rather than a girl who's in constant reminder of the relationship she has? not focusing on u as much?

What would anyone prefer:

A girl who doesn't have that much baggage and ur in her mind or vs. a girl who still thinks about her relationship where her focus is not all on you...as sex might not be as good.

Now DJSlut, if we go by ur logic, that means ur a nutcase...since women tend to go for guys who are taken more often than single guys. Not even cuz their single, its just because they lack pure AFCness and aren't desperate. O

Plus why go for a taken girl? There are lots of single girls worth ur time even more. Karma will hit if u try to go for a taken girl who's happy in her relationship. Not worth the effort.

Now if the taken girl is all up on ur nuts, then thats fine...but if she's not..and u just want her ass when she wants to keep her relationship in tact, then thats messed up.

But I have to agree if u don't KNOW she's taken, then thats fine...but if she tells she already is...then i wouldn't try.

exactly. all you guys with this girl stealing attitude have a chick mindset.
you guys think like chicks, thinking that a taken girl is more quality than a single girl.

chick mindset: my friend has a cool new bf. why does she have one and not me?! im prettier than her!! i must have him!!!!

dude mindset: My friend has a hot new gf. cool, i should go get one too.

 

[Remulak]

exactly. all you guys with this girl stealing attitude have a chick mindset.
you guys think like chicks, thinking that a taken girl is more quality than a single girl.

chick mindset: my friend has a cool new bf. why does she have one and not me?! im prettier than her!! i must have him!!!!

dude mindset: My friend has a hot new gf. cool, i should go get one too.

for the first time I agree with you

 

[Distant Light]

This "all girls with boyfriends are fair game" crap that gets spewed around here goes too far. Just because a number of girls you've hit on who've been in a relationship for four weeks drop their panties for you behind their boyfriend's back, doesn't mean every girl who's in a relationship of three months or three years will do the same so long as you throw the right game at them. What a delusion some of you people are in.

The field doesn't lie plan and simple. You put a guy who is fun and cooler than a a girl's BF and if you give him enough time he will get her. Why?

This game isn't logical, so even though its not logically right the emotions she is in she loves it and is going to roll with it. This is same reason why relgious girls can still get gamed because once you get her in the whole state and her emotions is going crazy, all that "Wait until marriage" is thrown out the window.

Like I said many of the girls I talk to happen to have BFs, and I usually never find out they have a BF. It's funny because I have a friend who is talking to a girl I used to talk to about a year ago. I'm not finding out a year later that she's always had a BF. That specific chick was inviting me to do stuff with her on her birthday.

I've lied to my cousin's BF saying I'd go somewhere with her in order for her to go to a concert by herself. She even planned a trip to Florida, and she said she doesn't want her BF to go. Even though he is going down there the same time she doesn't want him no where near her.

An then just look at the many FRs and LRs of guys fuking married chicks, taking girls right in front of there BFs. Read an old TD post about how he'd open chicks who were making out with there BF and just start gaming her. Steal the girl from him and makeout with her. (This used to be mindblowing but now I have a better understanding on all this so it isn't as bizarre)

But its not like I even try to specifically go for girls who have BFs, its just I'm realizing most of the good looking women is always talking to someone, there is always some guy who is trying to get with her. I good Girl Friend of mine she always telling me about the different guys she talk to and its almost like she has her own rotation and all she is doing is screening them before they have sex. Most of them don't even get to the point of sex.

But take it how you want, its nothing delusional. The field doesn't lie. Just don't get it mixed up I'm clearly talking about guys who are learning from this community because when learning all this it really makes getting girls a whole lot easier because the average guy wouldn't know how to actually get the girl because he may quit right when he gets "I have a BF".

exactly. all you guys with this girl stealing attitude have a chick mindset.
you guys think like chicks, thinking that a taken girl is more quality than a single girl.

chick mindset: my friend has a cool new bf. why does she have one and not me?! im prettier than her!! i must have him!!!!

dude mindset: My friend has a hot new gf. cool, i should go get one too.

It's not even about stealing girls from other guys. How can it be stealing if you never even knew she had a BF. An half the time the girls don't even really consider the guys there seeing as BFs. Most of the women I know that are part of my social circle they all are talking to different guys at once and you know whats funny, not one of them is fuking the girl. There is this one girl I know, there are maybe 3-5 different guys trying to talk to her all at the same time and none of them are hitting her.

So here you come in now being the more fun and cooler guy and actually take what you want. That's how I like to see it as, if a girl who has a BF or if I find out later she has a BF...If she is talking to me and is kinoing me, laughing, and loving me overall then I'm going to have some fun and learn something. Only if it's a friend I would I would actually just stand back, I won't even talk to the girl. (I made the mistake of holding intense eye contact with my friends gf, and she stands right next to him looking at me like she wants me to fuk her.)

It's amazing how the female mind is, its all about the emotional state. A woman in a 5 year relationship will get down in dirty with a guy, because she wants that validation from him, because he is more fun and cooler than her BF. Overall she feels better around that guy than her BF.

 

[Raikojo17]

^^ well, if you dont know she has a bf and she fails to mention him then it's not your fault, so if u bag her than it's just cheating on her part. you are not at fault.

wat im talking about is these guys that come on her every damn day asking how they can steal girls from bf's. these guys know these girls are in a relationship and fawn over the girl like she is some prize. if you can steal a girl away so easily then she is not a prize at all.

if you know a girl is taken then i see it as disrespectful and needy to steal her away from her man.

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

Yea, i'm not saying that its wrong if u didn't know...
All i'm saying is that if u already do know.

 

[comic_relief]

You know what is kind of comical,

If a girl cheats on you she is a wh0re, yet if you steal her from her boyfriend it is entirely different?

comic_relief

 

[Interceptor]

if you know a girl is taken then i see it as disrespectful and needy to steal her away from her man.

Seconded.

 

[muscleman]

Here's an interesting bit I just got in an email, it's a DJ tip of the day from this site:

TIP OF THE DAY


** Are You Chasing Women That Are Not Interested? **


I've seen many witty responses to a woman's "I have a boyfriend" line.
A lot of them are quite clever, but fundamentally flawed.

Let's put aside the problems if she does have a boyfriend in the first
place (Do you want to go out with a girl that cheats? Do you want to
piss off a man whose status and strength are unknown to you?) and look
at the real issue.

If a girl offers this information on your first meeting, chances are
she's not interested. Whether she is telling the truth or not is
irrelevant. She's not interested in you. You will waste an awful lot
of time chasing her if not.

Although men and women are quite different, you can usually gauge
responses by putting yourself in the situation. You have a
girlfriend, and she's not here. A woman you fancy talks to you, do
you tell her you have a girlfriend? Alternatively, you don't like
her, now do you tell her?

One thing I've learned whilst dating is that all the tricks,
techniques, and mindsets will not work if the woman you've gone for
hasn't decided you are a good mate. So the sooner you can get hold of
information that she's not interested the better.

This is my response to the "I've got a boyfriend" line. It has to be
said politely and with a smile.

"I'm sorry, I didn't know having a boyfriend stopped you from making
friends. Nice to meet you."

Turn around and don't look back. Don't even try to catch her eye
later on in the night.

Having done this a few times, I've gotten quite a few different
responses. They all fall under these three categories:

1) The woman is embarrassed, and sees the stupidity of the situation.
She comes back, and tries to get your attention. I have had women buy
me drinks, apologize, give out their number and I've even slept with a
few of them. I've also made many female friends, who help in getting
more women.

2) The woman thinks nothing of it, and forgets you. She chats up
other blokes in the place. You weren't selected by her. It's better
than her saying "get lost ugly."

3) The woman actually has a boyfriend. He either arrives or she goes
home without talking to anyone else.

Any way is a winner, and #1 is surprisingly the most popular response
in my experience, so try it and see what happens.

Most importantly though: Don't waste time chasing a woman that is not
interested. She may seem like an amazing prospect, but there are
plenty of other prospects that require far less (or no) effort.

This tip by: Huisy

What do you think?

 

[MacDiddy]

What does a Chick having a BF got to do with US... Thats her business.. Our interest is to get with the Chick. You guys keep putting self limitations on a rumour or upon hearing 3rd hand information, or in reading her vibe that maybe she has a BF.. and BANG... on goes the brakes.. Even when a chick tells you she has a BF you should put that on ignore, just like you ignore anything else she says that is contrary to your sarge.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

to me its only disrespectful if you know the boyfriend but thats just me

 

[comic_relief]

to me its only disrespectful if you know the boyfriend but thats just me

bros. before ho's

I would never steal a girl from my friend

comic_relief

 

[Interceptor]

I agree, I think it's highly disrespectful to pursue a woman who already has a BF.
The only possible exception is that you know for a FACT that she is in love with you and is serious about breaking up with her BF.
Remember, treating a woman as an object in this manner disrespects you , her, and the unknown BF who could be in love with her and a general good guy.
You would hate someone mackiing on YOUR chick, right?
So try to resist temptation and your Ego and leaves those chicks alone.
If you just want to bang her, why are you seducing a taken woman?
There are plenty of single ONS hos out there. Just use your radar, dude.

 

[Raikojo17]

I agree, I think it's highly disrespectful to pursue a woman who already has a BF.
The only possible exception is that you know for a FACT that she is in love with you and is serious about breaking up with her BF.
Remember, treating a woman as an object in this manner disrespects you , her, and the unknown BF who could be in love with her and a general good guy.
You would hate someone mackiing on YOUR chick, right?
So try to resist temptation and your Ego and leaves those chicks alone.
If you just want to bang her, why are you seducing a taken woman?
There are plenty of single ONS hos out there. Just use your radar, dude.

exactly.

 

[typical]

This "all girls with boyfriends are fair game" crap that gets spewed around here goes too far. Just because a number of girls you've hit on who've been in a relationship for four weeks drop their panties for you behind their boyfriend's back, doesn't mean every girl who's in a relationship of three months or three years will do the same so long as you throw the right game at them. What a delusion some of you people are in.

Exactly, there are more then enough single girls out there and they are easier to get then steal a girl from another guy.

Next time your about to steal a girl from her bf think hard about, if you can steal this girl from her current bf whats not to say some other guy is able to steal her from you once you make her your gf.

In the end its about what you want from girls if your willing to be shallow and just get laid then go for it if your lookign to find something more meaningful then go after the single girls, they dont bring baggage from their past.

 

[KingBeef]

Girls are not guys, they can get bf anytime, and if they don't have it, they are loosers. These are 3 reasons why girl would be single.

A) She's fat or ugly or has some mental disorder

B) She got dumped for some reason, probably because she's not that good, and her next will probably be a vehicle for her to move from her ex to her new next bf (not you)

C) She's new in town

D) Her bf got killed or is unavailable anymore by some accident


Thus, single women are freaks.


Women know that being single is bad, and it makes them look bad. They need that verification that they are beautiful, and they will do anything to get a bf. Thus, no good woman is single..

IS THIS REALLY THAT TRUE??? CAN I GET SOME FEEDBACK FROM YOU GUYS ON THIS????

 

[KingBeef]

It does matter. Because a single girl is screwed up. Girls are not guys, they can get bf anytime, and if they don't have it, they are loosers. These are 3 reasons why girl would be single.

A) She's fat or ugly or has some mental disorder

B) She got dumped for some reason, probably because she's not that good, and her next will probably be a vehicle for her to move from her ex to her new next bf (not you)

C) She's new in town

D) Her bf got killed or is unavailable anymore by some accident

Thus, single women are freaks.

Women know that being single is bad, and it makes them look bad. They need that verification that they are beautiful, and they will do anything to get a bf. Thus, no good woman is single..

Oh sure, you can go boyish on that one single chick you have a hard on for. But you can't tell if she's any good, to do that you'll have to give her a chance, and chances are it will be a waste of time if you have your values straight.

The only good girl is the relationship girl.

OH MY GOD....WHAT AN EYE OPENER!!!! IS THIS REALLY TRUE???? CAN I GET SOME FEEDBACK FROM YOU GUYS????

 

[rrrrr]

Girls are not guys, they can get bf anytime, and if they don't have it, they are loosers. These are 3 reasons why girl would be single.

A) She's fat or ugly or has some mental disorder

B) She got dumped for some reason, probably because she's not that good, and her next will probably be a vehicle for her to move from her ex to her new next bf (not you)

C) She's new in town

D) Her bf got killed or is unavailable anymore by some accident


Thus, single women are freaks.


Women know that being single is bad, and it makes them look bad. They need that verification that they are beautiful, and they will do anything to get a bf. Thus, no good woman is single..

IS THIS REALLY THAT TRUE??? CAN I GET SOME FEEDBACK FROM YOU GUYS ON THIS????

No, he's full of crap and has no grasp on reality. I've known plenty of single girls that didn't have a boyfriend at a particular time. Don't listen to djslvt he doesn't know what he's talking about.

 

[KingBeef]

You know what?? Honestly guys....up to now I would NEVER CONSIDER TAKING OR TRYING TO TAKE A GIRL AWAY FROM HER MAN....but until now...and i'm usually a VERY MORAL GUY...why????

WOMEN ARE ILLOGICAL....you have to remember that....WOMEN ARE ILLOGICAL....the quality ones can't be alone, they need to feel as if they're taken by somebody else....

I just remembered once i spoke to this girl once and she asked me "how long have you been without a girl???" i told her 6 months because i was in the process of work, school, busy, etc. and needed some personal time. She told me, "Wow, that's a long time, i could never be without a boyfriend that long...that's crazy!!!

QUALITY WOMEN DON'T GO THROUGH BOYFRIEND DROUGHTS....THEY UPGRADE OR STAY WITH SOMEONE UNTIL THEY GET SOMEONE BETTER FOR THEM...

this a real eye opening thread

 

[KingBeef]

hey rrrr....there is some real truth to this thread....you can't deny that