Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Boy Scouts - they had it right from day one

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Looking back, I wish I had taken the principles of Boy Scouts more seriously AFTER I earned Eagle and moved on. I think most people here could benefit from their ideas.

The Boy Scouts were formed nearly 100 years ago for a very simple reason: to help boys and young men develop into MEN. There's a reason they created a divide between "Boy Scout" and "Explorer Scout" - one program is designed to help boys become men, and the other is meant for fun and games (and women may join). There are three "Aims of Scouting": character development, citizenship training, and personal fitness. I think we can all agree with those principles as being important.

The Scout Motto: Be Prepared

Isn't that what we are doing here? We are learning more to better prepare ourselves for life's challenges.

The Scout Slogan: Do a Good Turn Daily

Make the world a better place. Women love a man who does good things for others, especially if he puts his life on the line to do so.

The Scout Law: A Scout is
Trustworthy
Loyal
Helpful
Friendly
Courteous
Kind
Obedient
Cheerful
Thrifty
Brave
Clean
Reverent

He is a man! You can count on him. He only looks to improve the world with a smile on his face. He is polite and tries not to do anything bad to anyone - he is KIND as opposed to NICE (he is good to others, except he has a BACKBONE). He is disciplined with his life and money. He leads the way, is just in his actions, and holds himself to a higher ideal - religious or otherwise.

The Scout Oath: On my honor, I will do my best to do my duty to God and my country and to obey the Scout Law; to help other people at all times; to keep myself physically strong, mentally awake, and morally straight.

He holds himself to his own personal HONOR. He does the best he can, for himself and others. His body is taken care of, he continues to learn and keep his mind fresh, and he lives by morals and disciplines set by himself.

Even if you were never a Boy Scout, I think you can learn something from their model. Becoming a man in their eyes has nothing to do with earning badges and sucking up to leaders: it's a journey that forces you to be a respectable citizen, to be healthy and active, and to stand up for what you believe in and take the lead in life.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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THE_ADDMAN

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thats funny, I used to do that years ago, (be part of the scouts)

and I think a week ago, I was looking at some of their information pages, and I noticed the same thing. Men training boys to be men. Can the juvenile "boy-man scout love" and bull**** like that, and you can see that its very helpful
 

LA_Chico

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wat about tha Army?
 

MuayThai

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Yeah man, my boys are going in the scouts... when I have some kids that is. I never did that was too "traditional" for my parents. lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When does a cub scout become a boy scout????


After he eats his first brownie! :D
 

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logicallefty said:
When does a cub scout become a boy scout????


After he eats his first brownie! :D

hahahahah

Thats when u become a man ;)
 
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