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What a lost feeling... the game. Seduction. I like that word... To seduce.

A friendly reminder to those still in the girls are the be all end all phase of life: It's all just a game. I am successful because it is just a game. I know I'm going to have fun because I LOVE this game. The intrigue is that you're working against someone you want to get in the end and that wants to get you.... but you're against each other until you both win!

Seduction is just amazing once you stop looking at it like 'HB8, must cold approach. Grab your balls and go.' It's an open ended game, play it as you wish depending on what you feel like. Constantly playing, looking for a challenge. I don't bother with those [girls] who aren't in it for the game. They're up to no good with lack of training. Lack of fun. I don't like having a chick make my game look bad or try to take the fun out of it. Again, it's all about the fun.

Sucking face is meh. The fun of seduction is what I'm in for! So many possibilities so many counters and obstacles...

Loosen up. Life's a game, seduction's a game. Math is a game. Play or be played ;)
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Whatever you do, who ever you seduce, guys better wear protection. Once you catch something or she gets pregnant, your fun goes down. Stay safe to maintain all the fun
 

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just play the games by the rules
 

LikRetsam

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Originally posted by hacx
just play the games by the rules
Missed the point completly I see.
 

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if dating is a game, then it must have rules .....and when i say play by the rules, i mean not to be stupid like getting a girl pregnant....and IF U GET A GIRL PREGNANT guess what???? ....GAME OVER!!!!!..
i am not a don juan yet, but i think if wanna be one u have to know the rules.
 

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I dont believe in "rules" of dating, but I believe there are a few guidelines.

Like Lik said, it is a game. Treat it like it and it will be fun. From what I've learned, however, before you can do so, you must get rid of fear of rejection and such.

Good post.
 

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lets put it this way, the only real rules are self imposed ones.

But try to stay within the law, no raping girls ey.
 

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Everyone shud be doing it to have fun, but i think the seasoned DJ, or at least someone who knows his stuff are the ones who shud throw the rule book out the window. How can you break free of what you've never been a part of otherwise? And disregarding rules at premature time only results in poor foundations.
 

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Along with microphone - My old piano teacher used to say "only once you realize and put into practice all the rules, can you begin to change them and bend them to your wants and needs"
 
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Originally posted by LikRetsam


Sucking face is meh. The fun of seduction is what I'm in for! So many possibilities so many counters and obstacles...

Loosen up. Life's a game, seduction's a game. Math is a game. Play or be played ;)
so your not good at kissing?

well alls i gotta say is that kissing is not like most things
practice practice practice and youll get better,

its pretty much either u good at it or not, cause if ur not good u wont get much practice..... and then u wont get better, as fast as someone who is good.

its ok we all got our little downsides to us;)
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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Yeah I guess I can't get much practice and get rid of my noobness at kissing. Sigh, all the great DJs will be passing me up and I'll be left with my right hand.

TEACH ME!



:rolleyes:
 
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Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
^^^is that sarcasm or is that guy serious?
Originally posted by LikRetsam
Yeah I guess I can't get much practice and get rid of my noobness at kissing. Sigh, all the great DJs will be passing me up and I'll be left with my right hand.

TEACH ME!



:rolleyes:
let me elaborate, since u no good at kissing, you wont be getting better at it as fast as someone who does it well naturally, so u need to practice it even more, BUT for that same reason (that u suck and u need practice) u wont get lots of practice.
 

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Bump.
 

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Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
Everyone shud be doing it to have fun, but i think the seasoned DJ, or at least someone who knows his stuff are the ones who shud throw the rule book out the window.
Or maybe you "shud" get some spelling lessons. Hows abut dat yo?
 

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Retards
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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