"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Boy gets suspended for calling his teacher "cute"
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
spider_007
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i bet he wont make that mistake again......might end up on this forum in 20 years, crying how he's just terrified of talking to women.
MikeBrown30
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Suppressing a 9 year old, I like where the U.S is going.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Vice
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I remember in elementary school I got in trouble for bringing a big ass DK book on pretty much everything science related, including biology. I got in trouble for it because it had a photo of the male and female forms, including the genitals.
Another time I got in trouble for asking a girl if she liked hot dogs, and telling her that she could "eat mine". I was seven years old. I didn't have a hot dog.
And yet ANOTHER time, I got in trouble for talking about Zelda (the video game) on the school bus, and warning a kid not to go to zelda.com because at the time it was a porn site. The obese, fat slimy woman thought I was TELLING the kid to go to that website and check out the naked ladies.
All three of these instances resulted in WOMEN telling me that these things were bad. And I'm sure these instances have some kind of deep psychological effect on me.
Another time I got in trouble for asking a girl if she liked hot dogs, and telling her that she could "eat mine". I was seven years old. I didn't have a hot dog.
And yet ANOTHER time, I got in trouble for talking about Zelda (the video game) on the school bus, and warning a kid not to go to zelda.com because at the time it was a porn site. The obese, fat slimy woman thought I was TELLING the kid to go to that website and check out the naked ladies.
All three of these instances resulted in WOMEN telling me that these things were bad. And I'm sure these instances have some kind of deep psychological effect on me.
Ninja Dude
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This is just one illustration of what total shyte the education system is. I used to think Ron Paul was crazy for trying to shut down the DoE, but now I fully agree. We need to hit the big red reset button on this puppy. We are failing future generations by encouraging weak, beta behavior. The greatest moments of our legacy were ushered in by risk-takers, and thanks to schooling / social conditioning there are a lot less of these people around - in fact they are becoming an anomaly
ChalengeGuyFan
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At the end of the article, they say about a boy of 7 being accused of _SEXUAL_HARASSMENT_ for kicking another kid in the groin, in an altercation!!!
My God, American Idiots have gone way down the drain!
My God, American Idiots have gone way down the drain!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.