"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Boy asks girl for number, is talked to condescendingly
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- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
ChalengeGuyFan
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Someone give the man a beer! Nicely played!
A comment there:
"You, sir, are a king among people with a ballsack" :crackup:
A comment there:
"You, sir, are a king among people with a ballsack" :crackup:
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perseverance
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Fair play to him.
If you don't ask, you don't get.
If you don't ask, you don't get.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Mantis Toboggan
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perseverance said:Fair play to him.
If you don't ask, you don't get.
double true.
Yeah. Bold move. I know part of the approah anxiety guys have is fear of being rejected in public.
That's why I live by the phrase "fortune favors the bold".
When you ask a girl for her number, you have a 50/50 shot of getting it. Either you get it, or you don't, which makes no difference because you didn't have it to begin with. You gotta play those odds
That's why I live by the phrase "fortune favors the bold".
When you ask a girl for her number, you have a 50/50 shot of getting it. Either you get it, or you don't, which makes no difference because you didn't have it to begin with. You gotta play those odds
SharinganUser
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What are you talking about OP? They never talked down to him.