Bout to get with my first virgin - any advice

[Kenny Powers]

Pretty much what the title says. I've never been with a virgin before and im not super experienced myself. I know blood is involved and its kinda painful for the girl, but otherwise im fairly unsure what to expect. Is there anything I should know? Also is there anything i can do to make the experience easier/better for her?

 

[Spawn_Xe]

Never ****ed a virgin before but.. pass her here and I'll solve your problem! haha

Tough one bro. My approach (and not saying this is how you should do it, just my perspective) would be to get her to say what she expects from her first time and then give her exactly what she's anticipating. Most importantly, don't give into the pressure that women put on their first time.. coz you'll be so concerned and worried and careful.. neither of you will enjoy it. Keep the mood light and almost humorous (women will say they want passion but they also really want fun and safety/comfort)

Start her off from behind as this is always the slickest way into a girl, but just make sure you put in ALOT of foreplay to get her really wet and loose.

 

[Krueg]

She says she is.. But you wont know unless she bleeds. Just take it slow, dont pound and throw her around like she's a sl@t. It's her first time. Be cool and take the lead.

 

[Down Low]

So . . . what happened?

 

[Cabal]

Bite her ear.

 

[Who Dares Win]

If she is nervous it could happen that she wont be lubricated enough, so some lubricant gel will help.

Missionary position will do, I know you would love doggy style but that position is not exactly what put a virgin girl in a comfortable mental state.

Do a lot of foreplays and maintain eye contact, kiss her and look at her also while you are nailing her that would assure her that you like her as a person and not only as a easy fvck.

The more she is comfortable the first time, the more you will get the next times, also dont forget to cuddle right after, its a bonding phase that will help you to get her in future and again be more comfortable with you thus making more stuff.

 

[Mr Wright]

I've been with about 7 virgins in my time and as for advice i'd say one thing, its not something you should take lightly. This girl is not going to be like any other girl in bed, shes going to be nervous and might even back out. If you're a nice enough guy to actually want her to have a good experience do these things.

- Take your time, dont just jam it in there after 5 minutes of foreplay, play with her slowly and work her up slowly. If she hasnt known you that long maybe dont have sex the first time, just get used to each other etc.

- Start shallow, let her control the pace of how she wants it, the whole rodeo crazy sex games can wait until next time.

- There probably wont be blood, only 2 of my virgins bled and tbh those were the girls who i cared about the least and didnt care about me that much. A girl shouldnt bleed if shes fully relaxed. Its a myth that virgins should bleed, so dont go sticking towels underneath her.

- If it does hurt her, just finish the job. It could be uncomfortable as she probably hasnt had anything that big up there but once she gets that inital stage out of the way it will be good for her, so this may sound crude but if you're going to break something...actually break it, dont leave anything behind.

- Go in with an open mind, like ive been with girls who have slept with like one or two other guys and they've done some really weird ****...where i've actually had to ask what they were doing. Shes going to be inexperienced so just roll with whatever she wants to pull out...

- She will remember this forever, i kid you not, one girl literally wrote a poem about her first time(with me) and it somehow got published, it was read out in school...it wasnt too obvious but she gave me a copy and asked what i thought, i thought she was crazy. Just be prepared bro! Virgins are usually clingers.

And if its already too late, give it to her better next time, you can be sure it wasnt what she was expecting either way...