"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bought my first ever WebCam

Poonani Maker

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I hate my voice. I taped a phone call of me talking to this chick, and I thought that I sounded like a dumbass. How many of you have a WebCam? Do you think it's beneficial to your improvement in conversing with people or chicks in general?

I hope I get better at sounding smarter. I'm humbled by hearing and watching myself speak. It ain't too pretty. I think I come across as an ass, and I'd better change that cause I wouldn't even want to be around me after listening and watching me speak.

Before long I also hope to be makin pornos with this thing. It has tracking so it moves as you move about.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I am the same way. I can't even listen to myself without shuddering at the horror. I hate my voice. :(
 

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Sadly, I know exactly what my voice sounds like .... it sounds like my dad. Exactly. When I'm on the phone, nobody can tell if it's me or my dad so I can take his business calls, and once he talked to a chick for like 20 minutes. He also talked to my friends on the phone about this weekend where I got drunk and and and.... so be glad, at least your voice is original.
 

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With me, sometimes I sound great, sexy even, and sometimes I sound terrible....nerdy and AFCish. I think it depends on my mood mainly. Unfortunately, I'm always in the latter mood. But yeah check your mood before conversations too.
 

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Well, for the first time, I filmed myself masturbate, and really and truly, I felt proud of myself watching the video. If you want to see why you should not feel ashamed, men, of masturbating then film yourself. Basically, your face turns really red at orgasm, and your eyes get squinty like a mole...think Chuck Norris. I'm proud of being a male. That way, I can orgasm and then close up shop and go on to other things. I don't have to lie there for an hour after doing nothing like a woman would.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don't worry man, everyone hates their own voice, it feels weird when we here it but out voice is normal to everyone we know.
 

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I remember when I first bought a webcam I recorded myself jerking off too. I felt like a porn star.
 

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rjones said:
I remember when I first bought a webcam I recorded myself jerking off too. I felt like a porn star.

Damm you guys' got me intrigued now. I've actually recorded myself having sex but after your post and Poonani's who's I repped, I feel like recording myself spanking the monkey.

I'm so easily swayed to do unconventional things.
 
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