“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The receptionist was this cute Moldovian chick who has been in the states for 6 years. She seemed really eager to conversate with me while we were waiting for her boss to come iron out the rest of the details for the vehicle. gave lots of IOI's such as meeting my gaze and looking at my lips, lots of hair twirling and breaking my gaze by looking down and to the left, aside from the obvious urge to tell me her life story.

Here's the thing that was stopping me, I'll be going there very two weeks for the next year to make car payments and clearly she is a "hired gun" of sorts.

Would you and how would you consider approaching her? Or is it just a bad idea in general?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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HalfAddict said:
The receptionist was this cute Moldovian chick who has been in the states for 6 years. She seemed really eager to conversate with me while we were waiting for her boss to come iron out the rest of the details for the vehicle. gave lots of IOI's such as meeting my gaze and looking at my lips, lots of hair twirling and breaking my gaze by looking down and to the left, aside from the obvious urge to tell me her life story.

Here's the thing that was stopping me, I'll be going there very two weeks for the next year to make car payments and clearly she is a "hired gun" of sorts.

Would you and how would you consider approaching her? Or is it just a bad idea in general?
You should have gotten the # already. what are you afraid of?? She might not even be there when you make your next payment. So you made all this small talk and didn't even get her phone#?

She threw her p/ssy up into the air and you swing and missed.
 

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Espi said:
I think you did fine. There's no rule saying you have to get the number on the first meeting.

When you go back in two weeks, and you still seem to have chemistry, then ask her to do lunch or a drink with you. She'll give up the number or agree to meet you where you tell her you're gonna be. I never ask for the number directly. I instead invite them for a drink and let them either agree to meet me--I don;t care if they give up the number or not.

And as a sidenote--why are you taking the time every two weeks to visit them to make your car payment? If it were me, I'd be setting up an online payment or sending chekcs in the mail.
Who guarantees she will even be there in 2 weeks? I don't agree he shouldn't have gotten the #. Why should he wait 2 weeks? Terrible advice IMO.

I would go back or call up right now and say I forgot something. Then get the phone #.

When opportunity knocks you have to take it. In 2 weeks she could be gone or another man with some balls already got her and she will reject the OP. The chic was acting interested TODAY. You know how that can change by the minute. In 2 weeks she might be a cold b!tch.
 

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Malice said:
I would go back or call up right now and say I forgot something. Then get the phone #.
^^^
Golden advice and the line to use to do it.

Definitely in person though!

Who cares if she's just the shooter chick (so to speak). That would drive me nuts going there every two weeks and salivating about this chick and know that I blew the perfect opportunity.

Worst that can happen is that she hands you the "seeing someone" line which does make her the low brow shooter chick anyway (so no loss either way).

SH
 

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SecondHalf said:
^^^
Golden advice and the line to use to do it.

Definitely in person though!

Who cares if she's just the shooter chick (so to speak). That would drive me nuts going there every two weeks and salivating about this chick and know that I blew the perfect opportunity.

Worst that can happen is that she hands you the "seeing someone" line which does make her the low brow shooter chick anyway (so no loss either way).

SH
Even if she won't give him the # today, THEN he can try again in 2 weeks. But not to at least try getting the # today is unacceptable. Maybe I have been through too many times in my head "what if I did that", "what if I did this", it's like torture. After torturing myself endlessly for years I started to never let an opportunity go by without at least trying.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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The reason I'm not setting up payments through a bank ect. is because I don't have any of that **** right now... Maybe you read this on another post or not but the short and now of it is I left my hometown with a backpack 6 months ago and lived as a dirty hippie all summer. Basically I'm doin my thing with strictly cash.

I have to get them some paperwork and insurance information asap.. so I'll just take the shot then.. Her boss was in the room for the latter half yesterday and my brother was in there with me. He saw it and confirmed it too.. so hopefully when I show up it will be just her (seems like it usually is). Then I'll just try a direct approach and report beck here.
 

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HalfAddict said:
The reason I'm not setting up payments through a bank ect. is because I don't have any of that **** right now... Maybe you read this on another post or not but the short and now of it is I left my hometown with a backpack 6 months ago and lived as a dirty hippie all summer. Basically I'm doin my thing with strictly cash.

I have to get them some paperwork and insurance information asap.. so I'll just take the shot then.. Her boss was in the room for the latter half yesterday and my brother was in there with me. He saw it and confirmed it too.. so hopefully when I show up it will be just her (seems like it usually is). Then I'll just try a direct approach and report beck here.
You going back now or in 2 weeks when she could be a different person?
 

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You didn't act because your gut instinct knows she's a girl in a place of business and you're a customer. Her job is to make you feel good about your purchase. If she is really that cute, then I'd try again next time. Take caution; girls from that region are hungry for green cards.
 

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You didn't act because your gut instinct knows she's a girl in a place of business and you're a customer. Her job is to make you feel good about your purchase. If she is really that cute, then I'd try again next time. Take caution; girls from that region are hungry for green cards.
I used to target girls at work all the time. That was my game plan. Target the cashiers and waitresses. 10 years ago I bought gas and I went in and the cashier was kinda cute, nothing great but I hadn't gotten laid in 3 years. I was a huge AFC and in the learning phase so I complimented her hair. Then she was putting out good vibes so I got the #. I called her up we set up a date and she ended up sucking me off and banging in the back of my car on the first date. This woman was a single mom but I didn't care I was huge AFC back then.

You never know.
 

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I used to target girls at work all the time. That was my game plan. Target the cashiers and waitresses. 10 years ago I bought gas and I went in and the cashier was kinda cute, nothing great but I hadn't gotten laid in 3 years. I was a huge AFC and in the learning phase so I complimented her hair. Then she was putting out good vibes so I got the #. I called her up we set up a date and she ended up sucking me off and banging in the back of my car on the first date. This woman was a single mom but I didn't care I was huge AFC back then.

You never know.

You are correct, you never DO know. I have seen it happen. My friend picked up a chick at Burger King and ended up banging her for years. It's always in the back of my mind that they are putting on a face for you because you're a customer. But hey, in the end, if you feel a connection go for it.
 

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You are correct, you never DO know. I have seen it happen. My friend picked up a chick at Burger King and ended up banging her for years. It's always in the back of my mind that they are putting on a face for you because you're a customer. But hey, in the end, if you feel a connection go for it.

This chic sucked my c/ck like a champ for several months before I had to break it off. Started to see her kid and stuff like that. But it was a fabulous experience. It was my first c/ck fiend. All I had to do was make out with her and she went for my zipper with her mouth. Still have memories of her licking it like a damn popsicle.
 

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Dear Half Addict,
Well you have approached her and she responded nicely....So read up about Moldavia,have a few Questions ready and a game plan...You will not be in her pants for a while...So check out the immediate area for drinking Holes...having found a nice one,you just pay your account, very late,just before closing, and say "Hey I suppose they let you out of the cage now and again,laugh,then say,you seem a very interesting person,I would really appreciate a chat after work one evening"...Take it from there,you will get an immediate response,don't push it,but the chances are good!
 

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I don't know, when it comes to "hired guns", a car salesman has to be near the top of the heap.
 

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Don't beat yourself up over this. just remember for next time, always strike while the iron is hot.

When you see opportunity, go for it, right then and there. Don't put it off, be the man of action.
 

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Don't beat yourself up over this. just remember for next time, always strike while the iron is hot.

When you see opportunity, go for it, right then and there. Don't put it off, be the man of action.
This is how I eventually learned... I got so sick and tired of the regret I had to start acting. The only way to avoid the horrible regret is to act. Rejection feels much better than regret for not acting.
 

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There is absolutely no thinking or analysis necessary here.

Just go in, and create a fun visit. If you do this, your window of opportunity will open and it will be obvious.

Create fun. Nothing more is needed as all else will fall into place after that. This will also release you from any pressure and that's how it should be.
 
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