"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bottling my emotions is causing me to do weird ****.

SpazzAttackk

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Okay, Ive always been the guy who never discusses his problems unless he absolutely has too...

As of late ive been seeing an LDR LTR, which is stressful. Ive been dealing with parents on the verge of Divorce and being constantly in the middle of it. Trying to get myself back on my feet and a whole boat load of other things I dont want to waste your time with.

This morning, around 5 I had a dream the roof was falling and you know what I did? I ****ing slept walk! Full out sprung out of bed, put my blanket over my head, ran into my closet door knocking my head and proceeded entering the kitchen where an individual was getting ready to go to work. They asked me what was wrong and I said I was hungover.. but I didnt even drink. I then walked back to the room.

I thought I had dreamt this until I called the person and asked. They said it looked like I was sleep walking. Seriously.. Ive never slept walked in my life.

Should I find someone to talk to about all this or should I find a way to vent? Seeing a psychiatrist is out of the question, Id never pay someone to hear my life story.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Vent in this thread here. Good a place as any bro.
 

Alvafe

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what pure filth say its truth lol, if you don't want to vent to anyone, vent here sometimes helps
 
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