"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bottling my emotions is causing me to do weird ****.

SpazzAttackk

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Okay, Ive always been the guy who never discusses his problems unless he absolutely has too...

As of late ive been seeing an LDR LTR, which is stressful. Ive been dealing with parents on the verge of Divorce and being constantly in the middle of it. Trying to get myself back on my feet and a whole boat load of other things I dont want to waste your time with.

This morning, around 5 I had a dream the roof was falling and you know what I did? I ****ing slept walk! Full out sprung out of bed, put my blanket over my head, ran into my closet door knocking my head and proceeded entering the kitchen where an individual was getting ready to go to work. They asked me what was wrong and I said I was hungover.. but I didnt even drink. I then walked back to the room.

I thought I had dreamt this until I called the person and asked. They said it looked like I was sleep walking. Seriously.. Ive never slept walked in my life.

Should I find someone to talk to about all this or should I find a way to vent? Seeing a psychiatrist is out of the question, Id never pay someone to hear my life story.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Purefilth

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Vent in this thread here. Good a place as any bro.
 

Alvafe

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what pure filth say its truth lol, if you don't want to vent to anyone, vent here sometimes helps
 
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