"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bothered by potential GF's sexual history

Insouciant

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I just lost control of this chick.

I should have come to you guys earlier. But ever since I found out about all of this stuff a month or two ago, it's been bugging me in my mind.

I believe that interest level just reached an all time low on this one.

Fvck!

Can you guys recommend some threads on how a guy could recover? I want to get away from the game for a few months and just focus on me: pursue the career of my dreams, hit the gym more frequently, work on reducing the ego... etc.

Thanks. I think. Ugh.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nutz

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Danger said:
She's a h0r.

I mean seriously, two guys in one day? She was just trying to see which one would be better so she sampled both (within hours of eachother) and then chose . That is just fvked up (especially for a virgin). Not to mention sending nudes to some guy behind her bf's back?

I would just keep fvkin her. If you get into any kind of relationship with her it will only cause you problems. Good for a receptacle only.
This. She's good for sex and having some fun, but not the kind of woman you want to form a serious relationship with. Add her to your plates or whatever, but dont stop looking for new talent.
 

DPistol

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Insouciant said:
I just lost control of this chick.

I should have come to you guys earlier. But ever since I found out about all of this stuff a month or two ago, it's been bugging me in my mind.

I believe that interest level just reached an all time low on this one.

Fvck!

Can you guys recommend some threads on how a guy could recover? I want to get away from the game for a few months and just focus on me: pursue the career of my dreams, hit the gym more frequently, work on reducing the ego... etc.

Thanks. I think. Ugh.
We need an update !
 
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