"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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both engaged... advices?

Jay-X

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in my class (i moved to a new school a month ago), there's this girl who's quite nice (nothin' incredible, she's a 7+, maybe 7/8. i didn't even like her when i saw her for the first time). 2 weeks ago i started to make eye contact with random girls and she was the only one that could keep her gaze on me longer than i could. a week ago, i took a seat next to her and we chatted a lot. that friday i went out with her and some friends of her. when she came, i noticed that the one who brought her there was her 20yr old boyfriend (we both are 17). never mind, i have a girl friend too, who gives:) the fact is... in the last week she started to smile at me durin' lessons and sometimes i catch her lookin' at me. do i have any possibilites? btw, my current girlfriend is a 8/9, so i don't wanna ruin my relationship... it'd be just a fling...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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well shes obviously interested in you seeing shes hangin out with you and makes eye contact. start adding some kino in and flirt more intensely. if she responds positively all you gotta figure out if endin the relationship with you gf is worth it.
 

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thx for the advice, i'm followin' it, but i'm already sure i'm not gon' to leave my current girlfriend... she's even hotter than her... just wanna experience somethin' different:-D (like a huge boyfriend fightin' me for stealin' his girlfriend:-D)
 

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hah, good luck with that ****.... hopefully his muscle slows his big ass down:p
 
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