"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Boston, MA Pivots or Wingmen?

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DrewJuan

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First post here. Have been working some C&F and other material into my game but would like to go out with some wingmen who either have this stuff down that I can learn from or at least are trying to learn the stuff themselves. Any pivots on here? Maybe the first step would be to go out and find some pivots!

DREW
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I was actually thinking the same thing, I'm around the Boston area looking to learn from a fellow DJ...
 
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'Lo,

I'm also looking for some wingman in the Boston area -- my other friends either 1. have girlfriends already, or 2. have no desire to learn and play the game (i.e. AFC)

I'd like to get into a regular bar/social scene where we can work our game

I'm good with the approach, getting numbers, etc. just have problems with followups (2nd date, etc..buildup, but i'm working on that).

let me know if you guys are interested;

I'm in cambridge, btw.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Nice! Well now that there are a couple of us, we should get together if possible.

Feel free to IM me: JVocell1380
 
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