Bossy Lover

[SgtSplacker]

Been seeing this girl lately and things are going pretty well but she's really bossy in bed. Last night I flipped out and told her I was tired of taking orders and left. My boner just dissipates into nothing when she starts telling me what to do. She used to be in a lesbian relationship so maybe she's used to being the dominant partner?

Should I even try to put up with this?

 

[TheException]

Next time she does something like that.....

Her: blah blah blah do this blah blah

You: No.......*proceed to put her into doggy position and initiate the poundtown sequence*

She will love it....

 

[jurry]

"Initiate the poundtown sequence" hahaha..

I'd agree with that.. I personally think its pretty hot when a girl is dominant in bed, although if its always like that then can get old after awhile.

 

[SgtSplacker]

I think I need to move to China to take advantage of that whimpering thing asian women do when you lay them lol...

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

so maybe she's used to being the dominant partner?

You are probably correct here.

Now it's up to you to show her the way.....

 

[bukowski_merit]

I screen out women that want too much control in bed (or only get off on top/from oral) and next them without mercy; don't care about how great they look or their personality. If they are not what i want in bed: "NEXT!" This is essential to me. In fact,

If i am in bed with a woman and she starts demanding me to do something. I'll often do the opposite (although sometimes i'll do what she asks.)

So let's take the old cliche "harder!"

Her: HARDER FVCK ME HARDER!
Me: (slowing down) whisper in her ear "nah, i feel like going easy on you right now."
Her: Please do it harder
Me: (doing even slower) "nah, im just going to fvck you like this all night."

After about 5 minutes, I'll pick it up hard and fast and experience the explosion.

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As far as your situation:

I think you handled it poorly.

"I'm tired of taking orders" and then leaving, just comes off very weak to me.

"I'm not taking orders from you" then proceeding to do what you want would have been better.

If she wants to fight you over it - well, that's fun to do in bed too.

Even just stopping. And when she asks why you aren't doing anything, saying "I like women who like to be dominated and this isn't working" would be better.

Either way: Sex conflicts are often bigger than outside the bedroom conflicts. Example: Watch how ruthlessly a lot of women will next or completely degrade a man who is experiencing ED.