"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Boss only gives me 8 hours a week. Help!

iCatch

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i'm a college student and this is my first job. i've been working at this store for 2 months and my boss only gives me 8 hours a week while everyone else gets 12-16. does this mean my boss doesn't like me? i thought if that was the case why doesn't he just fire me?

could it be because i lack experience? what should i do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJDamage

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iCatch said:
i'm a college student and this is my first job. i've been working at this store for 2 months and my boss only gives me 8 hours a week while everyone else gets 12-16. does this mean my boss doesn't like me?
Unless your boss always speaks down to you or treats you like sh1t then you have no case.

iCatch said:
i thought if that was the case why doesn't he just fire me??
He doesn't fire you because he still needs you.

iCatch said:
could it be because i lack experience? what should i do?
More likely its seniority issue or the fact the position you applied for already has a F/T and a P/T working there and you are just getting the leftovers.

Talk to your boss and see whether he has more hours or other jobs available for you in the store and ask him whether he see's any increase of hours in the near future. If the answer is no then its time to start looking for another job.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Prodigy746

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there could be multiple reasons for that icatch..

You could be the newest employee in the store so he feels obligated to give the people that have been there longer more hours

Your availability might limit your boss from scheduling your for more hours.

Your experiences , maybe other employees do the job better.
 
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