"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Born with Skinny generics!?!?

tom121

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Born with Skinny genetics!?!?

My dad and my older brother are all skinny, and I was born that way too

right now I am 6'0 at 145lbs, see picture below



I think it has to do with skinny generics, my father wasn't born to be a hulk back then, I've seen photos of him. He had defined body after he got into millitary, I wasn't sure how tall he was but I am sure he looks skinny with defined body - you know.. like has perfect abs, chest, etc. He told me that his dad was born with skinny generics too, so its likely I am born with it, so was my brother.

Now I know "eat more gain big" there are few problems
-> I don't have money to get the ammount of food that will need to last for more than a year
-> The food gets nasty a while (after eating for more than a week straight)
-> I just graduated from high school and now applying for full time job in hope I could start buying food
-> buying food is another problem, there's like a supermarket 10 minutes drive from my house but 30 minutes walk. I won't get my driver license until Feb. 2005.

What do I do? my goal is to be at least 190~240 for my height 6'0..

working out is no problem, there is a small community gym 30 seconds from my house, also with a hot tub and swimming pool :)


Thanks for any help
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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There's nothing we can do to help. You have to do it by yourself, get a job, get a bike so you can get to the supermarket, buy food, workout.

Your chest look ok, but you have to work on the arms and shoulders.
 
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You're only 18. VERY few boys are fully matured at 18, and it seems that for Asians the maturation process takes longer. So don't put too much pressure on yourself to have a "perfect" body, and keep working out hard and eating well. You definitely need to find some money to subscribe to www.skinnyguy.net . I think it will help greatly because you look just like Anthony Ellis did when he was scrawny. Just follow what he did step by step, and you'll be good to go. Good luck.
 

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Psh, you are just another skinny guy with a ragin fast metabolism. Welcome to the club.

Get weights, learn to use them correctly. I made a DRASTIC change in my appearance in only 3 months using weights. Just get a schedule, and stick to it.
 

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I was the same way.

I am now almost 22 and am at 170 and rising.

Good news is you are 18. DOn't worry about it.

Keep going to the gym, and eating lotsa food!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dude, I don't know why you're even concerned. You're ripped! You're a fvckin monster.
 

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Originally posted by Soma
Dude, I don't know why you're even concerned. You're ripped! You're a fvckin monster.
lol it only show those abs when I squeeze hard

when im relax, you don't see any muscles :D
 

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Even if you train for a year without a diet you will make gains. I've lifted for 3yrs with no diet and managed to get to 140lbs from being under 100lbs at 16 (28" waist, arms 14", good chest, wide back, most people think I'm about 160lbs).

Now that I got a bit more money handy I've only now started on a diet, since satuarday. I have a realy good base now to work from. My goal is 160-168lbs in about 12 weeks time, and to get my arms to 15", forearms to 12".

2 years ago
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/attachment.php?s=&postid=1299065

early this year
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=82864

few months back
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=109113

few weeks ago
http://www.faceparty.com/member_zoo...ember_name=s0lid&img_id=8757244&acstr=Z893692

me with cloths on :D
http://www.faceparty.com/member_pics.asp?member_id=2103629&member_name=s0lid&acstr=Z893A98
 

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DUDE, THEY'RE CALLED GENETICS, NOT GENERICS.
 

S0LID

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Originally posted by prosemont
DUDE, THEY'RE CALLED GENETICS, NOT GENERICS.
He only did a typo....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm very similar to you, same skinnyness and some toning like you. I've been going to the gym for 2 years now, haven't stuck to an exact lifting plan but I have got bigger. Just make sure you watch your diet extremely carefully, lift heavy, and get enough calories each day.

Be carefull not to do what I did this summer, have 6 weeks off the gym and lose about 6 months worth of muscle!. You've gotta keep up the food intake all the time otherwise people like us with fast metabolisms will soon have our bodies eat away at any new muscle its built and no longer uses.
 

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Originally posted by S0LID
Even if you train for a year without a diet you will make gains. I've lifted for 3yrs with no diet and managed to get to 140lbs from being under 100lbs at 16 (28" waist, arms 14", good chest, wide back, most people think I'm about 160lbs).

Now that I got a bit more money handy I've only now started on a diet, since satuarday. I have a realy good base now to work from. My goal is 160-168lbs in about 12 weeks time, and to get my arms to 15", forearms to 12".

2 years ago
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/attachment.php?s=&postid=1299065

early this year
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=82864

few months back
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=109113

few weeks ago
http://www.faceparty.com/member_zoo...ember_name=s0lid&img_id=8757244&acstr=Z893692

me with cloths on :D
http://www.faceparty.com/member_pics.asp?member_id=2103629&member_name=s0lid&acstr=Z893A98
What did you do to work on lats?
 

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I did pull ups everyday for a few months, cause i had a bar in my room. I train em once a week now.
 

prosemont

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Originally posted by S0LID
He only did a typo....
I thought so too, until he made the SAME typo at least twice.
 

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in that case, well done :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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well dont plan on becoming a bodybuilder....dont sweat it, technically speaking youre what doctors call an ectomorph....is just a term for a body type...you have low body fat, small bones, and little muscle mass and have a very high metabolism....is just the way you are, you can try to get big muscles, but that will very likely be very hard or unlikely....so stick to the way you are.
 

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Everyone told me i'd never be big, so therefore it was pointless for me to lift. However, i ignored their opinions and ridiculous comments and continued working out. I think my current physique speaks for itself.

If you lack genetics, work harder and eventually the results you're seeking will come!
 

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Originally posted by undesputable
is just the way you are, you can try to get big muscles, but that will very likely be very hard or unlikely....so stick to the way you are.
WRONG, SO SO WRONG
 

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Originally posted by undesputable
well dont plan on becoming a bodybuilder....dont sweat it, technically speaking youre what doctors call an ectomorph....is just a term for a body type...you have low body fat, small bones, and little muscle mass and have a very high metabolism....is just the way you are, you can try to get big muscles, but that will very likely be very hard or unlikely....so stick to the way you are.
Ectomorphs just need a different approach to gaining muscle, but it isnt impossible.
 
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