"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Born again!

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What's up my fellow DJ's?

The Bible has completely changed my life. I have finally picked myself up and started living my life the way I was meant to live it. I am currently completing week 2 of training and already reaping some rewards. I got several numbers last week, 6 over 4 days...and today I got another 7! Incredible...I finally got my confidence back, with more zest, and I'm not afraid to voice my opinion. Everything has turned upside down.

Prior to completing week one, I went to a party...more like a high school reunion....with a lot of people from another local high school already there. I met over 20 new people, but the standout was this HB8 from my high school, she is a year younger than me, and about 7 years ago now, I asked her to the semi-formal, but she turned me down.

I was a major AFC back then, and until a few weeks ago...but no more about that! When I saw her, I walked up to her and tapped her on the shoulder. She looked me up and down and jumped in my arms, planting a big wet kiss on my cheek right there. She was excited to see me for some reason after all that time had passed. We chatted a while, and she asked me what I am doing these days, and I told her that I am just about to graduate, and about to start my career...but left it at that. We had to leave shortly thereafter, and as she was pulling out her phone, I asked whom she was calling. She said her roommate, for a ride. I smiled and said I will take her home.

We got in my car and soon I found out she lives a few blocks up the road from my house. I asked her if she would like to grab a drink at the local pub, and she agreed. After parking my car at home, we went and had a few drinks while we talked about the people we used to know. And then she looked at me, with a twinkle in her eye and said that she can't believe how much I have changed, as if I was someone she had never met before. I told her these things happen as life goes on, and a man has to adapt to the changes if he is to succeed in life.

We played some pool, then she invited me back to her place for a coffee. Now, I'm no George Costanza...so of course I said yes. We went back to her apartment, and she jumped my bones as soon as we walked in. We had sex multiple times, first by the door, then on the sofa, then twice in her room, and afterwards we had a shower together. While we were in the living room, her roommate, walked out and saw us there but we thought nothing of it....maybe she could join us next time, who knows ;)

We ended the night there, and I said I would call her later that week...never said when. In the meantime, I kept collecting numbers, and stockpiling it in my database...now holds only 13...

I have another date lined up with one of the chicks from my school. I started talking to her when I asked her for a lighter for my cigarette, and we just took it from there. I am taking her out on Tuesday, and seeing my HB8 on Wednesday. Should be fun.

I have been getting more looks from nearly everyone in my elective class now...it's a class on Sexuality, and I am one of the only 2 men in there! 5 of my numbers for the database of chicks came from that room. One of them already wanted me to fvck her brains out in the ladies washroom on the third floor, but I took her to my car in the parking lot instead. I didn't want to deal with smelling **** while doing her. It was great this way because I just bought myself a Mazda3 not too long ago.

This girl was only average looking, but with a smoking hot body. She told me not a lot of guys talk to her, so she has to do all the talking most of the time. In the back of my mind, I just knew she was nothing more than a booty call. The next day, I was having a smoke with one of the ladies from my class, when this girl walked up to us and asked us for a lighter. I pretended I didn't even know her, and handed her one...a known player in our group looked at me weird right after that, and said "what the **** man, she was hot, why didn't you talk to her?!?". I just shrugged, turned around, checked her out while flashing my phone discretely at her and smiling. Then I turned back around and said "I may look sexy today, but she ain't my type bro."

Yesterday, I got together with my HB8 again. We went for a movie, then to a local pub for a dinner and some drinks. We ended up at her place once again, and fvcked like wild animals in heat. Then, she tells me she kind of likes me and would like to know if I want to see her exclusively. I told her to give me a few days to sort out my school and exams first (in reality I have one exam left! but I need her to think I'm busy), but that I definitely want to see her again. She smiled and we went to sleep. I spent the night at her place.

I will continue to rack up the numbers in case I don't turn my HB8 chick into a girlfriend, I have her right where I want her, and the rest of them are just flocking all around me. La vita e bella!

S&D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dear Seek and destroy,
Pleased with your conversion to Christianity,it is a fine way to govern your life,but a word of caution,you won't be able to perform four times a night for very long if you keep up the gaspers!get smart mate give them up while you are in front!
 

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But, I just started...and I feel HIGH!

And this time I didn't smoke a joint to achieve that.
 

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seek&destroy said:
What's up my fellow DJ's?

The Bible has completely changed my life.
seek&destroy
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And it only took seven years! :D

Just kidding, dude. I love to hear success stories and this was a good one. All the best.
 
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