"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Borks approach journal, lol

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Yeah here comes the craziness.

I'll start with last night

1-Went to "The drink" a local uptown bar with my wing Kyle, went to the rooftop and just chilled and hung out, and a bunch of girls showed up from the party bus, I bumped into one of them probably a 8. We introduced ourseles, she called me cute, I told her she's adorable and we started making out, found out shes a out of towner and her and her friend asked me if I wanted to go onto the party bus with them. I had to go take a leak, and in that time she got dragged off by the group back on the bus.

2- I can't remember how I approached or if I even did but another 8, she I guess had a bf who wasn't there, so we started talking and she gave me her number and we decided to make out, haha I left that one cause I didn't wanna deal with a bf later on. Cause I do have some morals.

3- Walked past a cute Asian girl on the way to the next bar and just said "Hey you're cute" but I just kept walking and she yells "Hey come back!" So I chat her up and got the number, texting her at the moment.

4- Hot blond on the dancefloor, she was pretty weird, I can't remember if she or I approached, but we went pretty nuts on there, but she weirded me out quite a bit so I ejected to another girl right away, she seemed like the goody type "wants a boyfriend" kinda a sweet heart, so I gave her a hug, grabbed her number and offered to take her out. I didn't close the blond so I'm more or less counting the girl afterwards. The next girl approached me, calling me attractive.

5 Cute ethnic brunette, a 7, I approached, got the makeout, and number.


I was going to work today, so couldn't bother trying to get any of em over to my place. But I slept in, LOL, oh well.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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But according to my bud, I madeout with 5 chicks, I don't remember, I was drunk, haha, but don't have beer goggles really so I I'm sure they were all good ;)
 

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Borknagar said:
Yeah here comes the craziness.

I'll start with last night

1-Went to "The drink" a local uptown bar with my wing Kyle, went to the rooftop and just chilled and hung out, and a bunch of girls showed up from the party bus, I bumped into one of them probably a 8. We introduced ourseles, she called me cute, I told her she's adorable and we started making out, found out shes a out of towner and her and her friend asked me if I wanted to go onto the party bus with them. I had to go take a leak, and in that time she got dragged off by the group back on the bus.

2- I can't remember how I approached or if I even did but another 8, she I guess had a bf who wasn't there, so we started talking and she gave me her number and we decided to make out, haha I left that one cause I didn't wanna deal with a bf later on. Cause I do have some morals.

3- Walked past a cute Asian girl on the way to the next bar and just said "Hey you're cute" but I just kept walking and she yells "Hey come back!" So I chat her up and got the number, texting her at the moment.

4- Hot blond on the dancefloor, she was pretty weird, I can't remember if she or I approached, but we went pretty nuts on there, but she weirded me out quite a bit so I ejected to another girl right away, she seemed like the goody type "wants a boyfriend" kinda a sweet heart, so I gave her a hug, grabbed her number and offered to take her out. I didn't close the blond so I'm more or less counting the girl afterwards. The next girl approached me, calling me attractive.

5 Cute ethnic brunette, a 7, I approached, got the makeout, and number.


I was going to work today, so couldn't bother trying to get any of em over to my place. But I slept in, LOL, oh well.
I got to get on this night game thing! Good job Bork.
I'm looking forward to reading your journal. I know you've mentioned ONS's from this stuff too.
 

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Thanks man, night games the ****.


So here's the entry for this weekend.

Friday: me and Solomon his bud Jason, and my bud Alex went out to Mankato, MN a college town just a hour and a half south of the Twin Cities. We started pre-drinkin about 8ish I think? Well me and Alex decided we'd head out to the bars early. Funny thing is when discussing sleeping arrangements I insisted I was sleeping at a girls house, but I haven't met her yet!

It wasn't too busy yet, talked to a couple girls but nothing major and I quickly at some point started making out with a HB8 and ended up back at her place, and within a hour or two our cloths came off and we shagged, we didn't pass out till about 6, woke up at 12:30pm and shagged again to take care of my morning wood. I got missed called from Solo and he thought I was dead and after finding food and smokes I made it to the bar the guys were all at(but Alex left, I ditched him by accident but he understood, I was getting puss) and I was approached by a cutie out of random and kiss/number closed. Seen hare later at the bar but she was kind of out of it, and didn't wanna waste time.

Went out again, did a couple openers but wasn't as energetic as the night before so didn't do so well. But ended up meeting a chick that happened to live close to my place up in the cities(off the record, so you guys out of MN refer to the capital as the "city"? like we call Minneapolis/St. Paul "the cities?) But she didn't seem DTF but was way into me in a good girl type way, she kept asking me why I was so adorable? Well me and her are going out next Friday so that's all good. I also have a date with a Asian hottie I met last weekend on Wednesday. All in all I got my SNL of the weekend. Wish I could have had another cause my ass is still awake as sleeping on a floor doesn't work for me, that and being a insomniac doesn't work well. Would have been nice to sleep in yet another girls bed :)
 

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Know what I should change the topic cause actually none of these were really approaches, I learned some tricks of the trade to make them come to me, which is nice.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Borknagar said:
3- Walked past a cute Asian girl on the way to the next bar and just said "Hey you're cute" but I just kept walking and she yells "Hey come back!" So I chat her up and got the number, texting her at the moment.
If "Hey, you're cute" works, why do they teach all this bullsh!t on here?
 

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zekko said:
If "Hey, you're cute" works, why do they teach all this bullsh!t on here?
Cause people like to over complicate things, especially the "gurus" cause making it seem complicated and that you need to know this and that and do this and that makes them a ton of money. Most of the time it's a lot easier than people like to think on here. But we can all probably agree, no matter how good or bad you are is a hit and miss numbers game. You can't win them all, but you can't lose em either.
 
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