Boring conversations

[RichardTheFrog]

Strip Club last night. One girl came up to me and conversation isn't that hard if they come up to you, but it usually trails off into boring stuff. She tells me that her main job is recruiting for an architect firm so I start asking her about that, and then it goes nowhere.

Other than that, just normal strip club stuff. I didn't pay or tip anyone other than bartenders.

My phone died so I asked to borrow the bartenders phone to call a cab. Just holding her phone for a few seconds, she was getting texts of guys wanting to come over that night.

Point is... Even the conversations that I do have just get boring.

 

[Glassguy]

The conversations that you have with women get boring?

Complete shocker.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

The conversations that you have with women get boring?

Complete shocker.

Was that advice?

 

[Glassguy]

Was that advice?

You dont need advice. It wont help you.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

You dont need advice. It wont help you.

Should I fvck 6's and pretend their 9's like you do?

 

[Glassguy]

Should I fvck 6's and pretend their 9's like you do?

Hate all you want.....you wont get a rise out of me.. My girls arent 6's. They are all 8's and 9's.

At this point I think you should be worried about fvcking ANYTHING you dont have to pay for. Or stalk.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

The conversations that you have with women get boring?

Complete shocker.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Context dude. You're not on a coffee date with a Match.com chick. You're in a strip club.

Surely you realize that when they're not up on the pole, their job is to mingle the crowd, talk to men and get them to buy drinks at the bar or splurge for a lap dance or whatever. That's why it was easy. Any topic you get into with a stripper who is on the clock is just going to be lip service from her end. They're not doing it to get to know you and for interesting conversation.

I'll bet anything once she realized you weren't cracking the wallet open and that conversation started going stale, her eyes were all over that fvcking bar room looking for the next target. Am I right?

I get you're practicing, and kudos for the effort, but you have to learn context. You seem blind to it.

You'd have a much more interesting conversation with a stripper if you were to talk to her about the sh*t you talk about here. Tell them you suck with women and offer to buy a few rounds at the bar as you get her perspective. I'll bet THAT conversation will get interesting...... They might even forget they're on the clock.....

Maybe.

But even if it wasn't a stripper, the conversation would have went stale anyway.

I've had a million "small talk" conversations over the years. It gets me nowhere.

What do you think if I told her I flip houses and have a million in the bank? (If it were true).

 

[RichardTheFrog]

A good conversation is far more than just an interesting topic. It has a lot to do with the human connection being established during the conversation itself.

A great conversation is going to be highlighted with emotions, and this is true whether you're talking to a man or a woman. It could be the emotions of sharing a passion in the topic in any way, even if it's a fired up debate of opposing views. There is a feeling to it that is non verbal and fuels it. THATS what makes it interesting.

Your conversations will die and go nowhere if you're missing that element, no matter how interesting the topic itself might be.



Why ask me? Just give it a try and see how that goes for ya.

I don't think I'll be making any positive connections any time soon, unfortunately.

 

[ubercat]

Richard why don't you record one of these conversations. That would achieve two things.

1. It would convince me that you're not a 300 pound female troll reaching for another packet of Krispy Kremes.

2. We could listen to your delivery and provide suggestions because delivery is far more important than what you say.

If you can't even manage to hit the record button on your phone why would anyone here help you. There's no point giving advice when you're never going to take it.

 

[Von]

Richard, what do you love?

Find an answer to my question, if you can.

Have the conversations turn around what you love.

If you don't know what you love... jail time wasn't productive than

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Richard, what do you love?

Find an answer to my question, if you can.

Have the conversations turn around what you love.

If you don't know what you love... jail time wasn't productive than

Money and sex.

But I've already had enough sex that the novelty has worn off.

I also have a great appreciation for home repair. I'm a pretty good electrician, plumber, floorer, drywall, etc. I respect that type of work.

I love pu$$y at certain times, but often it's not worth putting up with the pretentious personalities of the girls.

Maybe I love sex? But I would go broke paying for all the sex I want.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Richard why don't you record one of these conversations. That would achieve two things.

1. It would convince me that you're not a 300 pound female troll reaching for another packet of Krispy Kremes.

2. We could listen to your delivery and provide suggestions because delivery is far more important than what you say.

If you can't even manage to hit the record button on your phone why would anyone here help you. There's no point giving advice when you're never going to take it.

There's nothing wrong with the way I talked. It would definitely affect my "delivery" to know that I'm being recorded. It's just normal conservation.

 

[The Duke]

Its totally possible to have fun conversations with $trippers. I've had many over the years. Many times those conversations led to some sort of relationship. It's not always about $$$ and lip service, I suggest you come hang out with me and I'll show you how its done. After a while its not hard to figure out who is there for money, and who is worth spending time talking to.

When some girl approaches me, I always have a funny opener. It usually goes like this:

$tripper: How are you doing?
Howie: Ohh you know took a wrong turn and ended up here on my way to church.

$tripper: Can I sit on your lap?
Howie: Uhm, if you promise not to fart!

$tripper: How are you?
Howie: Great, thought I'd get started on finding my next ex-wife.

Then start on a conversation about marriage.

-Talking about sex is always a fun conversation with $trippers. @Richard you could have a lot of fun talking about your bionic dik. Bring it up in a joking manner, get them laughing, then convince her its real and tell her she could feel it for a $1.

-Make fun of the customers.

-Ask them about weird customers. They've got some funny stories.

-Talk about cologne/perfume.

-Ask about sugar babies. Get them to tell you the in's/out's of that.

-Tell them you are a plastic surgeon. But you better know all about implants!

 

[ubercat]

Unless you are actually hurting people emotionally or physically right and wrong r relative concepts. We are not saying you are wrong. We are saying the way you are behaving is not achieving the outcomes you want.

Since this a stubborn and resistant Case I shall request an audience with a pook.

Lesson 6


“I see…” said the startled young man. “The second one is always getting better. The first one is always staying the same if not getting worse.”

“Exactly! It is the difference between ROTTING and RIPENING. Be the good fruit! Be the PRIZE to be won!

Anyway Richard you have achieved something that nobody else has in my history on this site. I'm clicking the ignore button. So I say a polite and distant goodbye to you ms troll. Enjoy those Krispy Kremes.

 

[devilkingx2]

a good conversation requires both parties to want it to be good

if one person doesn't want to try it's not gonna go well, all you can do is say interesting things on an interesting topic, if the girl doesn't know how to keep it going that's on her

however you're never gonna get an interesting conversation by asking her about next week's weather forecast (for example), you gotta ask a girl if she'd rather fight 100 duck sized horses or 1 horse sized duck

 

[RichardTheFrog]

you gotta ask a girl if she'd rather fight 100 duck sized horses or 1 horse sized duck

This? Really?

What about conversations that actually have substance?

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Yeah...keep it age appropriate. It might work for him because he's younger. But that's not you. A lot of the advice you're given isn't really bad at all. It's just not YOU.

Even good advice can sometimes be a disaster when it's not tailored to who a person really is.

Personally, I think you have 2 things going strongly in your favor right now; things that can be very powerful with women. The first, I'm going to assume, is that with all of these hookers you've been messing with, that you're probably desensitized from pretty faces and tight bodies. I'm guessing you're not intimidated by the sight of it anymore. The second is you're nature to question things. You don't take anything at face value. You're willing to challenge ideas. That's a GOOD thing. Women don't want a man who agrees with them all of the time. They like a guy who can challenge them in certain ways.

These two things will allow you to approach hot women and be something of a challenge with them. That sh*t is GOLD.

You just don't know how to tap into and present it. You don't know how to channel those strengths and make them work for you. Instead, you go about things in a way in which these things actually work against you.

Your conduct in this forum is a perfect example. You're always questioning. Always challenging. And that's good. But the way you do it makes people who are interesting in helping you want to give up on you. They eventually ignore you and call for you to be banned. You don't know how to keep it light and inviting, as I stated earlier in the thread. Albeit you're doing it in a different way, you are doing the same thing with women. You're getting the same end result.

Your greatest strength is turning out to be your biggest hurdle. You need to work on getting the fvck out of your own way.

Yes, I am pretty desensitized to hot women, I think.

I am very combative and have been my whole life. A minor disagreement can blow up into something bigger very quickly.

I kind of feel like how @bigdave17 says about having to sit on the bench when he knows he would be good if given the chance.

Or I feel like I'm an outlet with a different plug...

https://goo.gl/images/v4ZWLw

There's nothing necessarily wrong with my appliance, and their wiring is definitely working, but we just aren't matching or connecting at the moment. I don't know what's missing or what I would have to change.

There's nothing I see that's easily identifiable that I should be working on. Aside from the cyberstalking thing, but nothing I can do about that.

Plus, I've been drinking a lot lately, and my personality turns pretty bad after just a few drinks.

 

[devilkingx2]

This? Really?

potential answers are interesting:
https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/...rse-sized-duck-or-a-hundred-duck-sized-horses

also actual experts have weighed in on this
https://www.digitaltrends.com/web/1-duck-sized-horse-vs-100-horse-sized-ducks-the-final-showdown/
https://www.theatlantic.com/politic...-choose-to-fight-the-horse-sized-duck/267071/

What about conversations that actually have substance?

don't be too uptight, you gotta know how to have fun and think outside the box, anyone can ask her about the cartesian demon he learned about in philosophy 101 to be faux deep, but not everyone can ask her something she never had to think about before.

life isn't all about the math equations, and they won't get you laid either.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

potential answers are interesting:
https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/...rse-sized-duck-or-a-hundred-duck-sized-horses

also actual experts have weighed in on this
https://www.digitaltrends.com/web/1-duck-sized-horse-vs-100-horse-sized-ducks-the-final-showdown/
https://www.theatlantic.com/politic...-choose-to-fight-the-horse-sized-duck/267071/



don't be too uptight, you gotta know how to have fun and think outside the box, anyone can ask her about the cartesian demon he learned about in philosophy 101 to be faux deep, but not everyone can ask her something she never had to think about before.

life isn't all about the math equations, and they won't get you laid either.

Your advice is not applicable to me. I actually have real things to talk about.