Boredom = Gunwitch Variation

[skip2mylou781]

I posted long version of this in the tips section, so i'll make this short and sweet:


Eliminate all **** like TV, internet, masturbating ect. from your life, and simply become BORED.....don't worry tho, your boredom will result in you wanting to eliminate it by GOING OUT AND TALKING TO WOMEN.


Its like gunwitch basically, because the boredom will release a desire within you to wanna go hit on women because hitting on women will be FUN and KILL THE BOREDOM....but you are not allowed to kill the boredom otherwise!!!

TRY THIS OUT AND TELL ME IM WRONG!

 

[skip2mylou781]

comments??

 

[ethnomethodologist]

Duh

 

[duttylove]

you will have a very boring exsistance!

 

[skip2mylou781]

yea u will, that is if u just sit there and dont go out and meet new people (and girls)...im tellin u, boring the **** out of urself will MOTIVATE u losers to get out there and meet new girls like never before, dont u see the reasoning behind it?

 

[ethnomethodologist]

That's like saying...

money = gunwitch variation

Eliminate all **** like savings accounts, wise spending, not lending etc.. from your life, and simply become BROKE.....don't worry tho, your brokeness will result in you wanting to eliminate it by GOING OUT AND MAKING MONEY.


Its like gunwitch basically, because the brokeness will release a desire within you to wanna go make money because making money will MAKE YOU RICH and KILL THE POORNESS....but you are not allowed to kill the poorness otherwise!!!

TRY THIS OUT AND TELL ME IM WRONG!

 

[Hawke]

No offense, but that has got to be one of the worse idea's i've heard so far.

Your actually suggesting cutting out the things in your life that you might actually enjoy so you can go talk to women? I can think of far better ways to release the desire to speak to women... hell, i bet ALL guys on this planet already HAVE that desire. Just a little lack of confidence perhaps stops that.

I can say i can see some reasoning behind your idea, but i doubt it would work for all people. Your not really motivating them, your just giving them a choice between being bored stupid and talking with new people. And that is an extreme difference, one that anyone with sense would see as being unworkable for a vast majority of people. There are better ways, and faster, to release a desire like what your suggesting.

 

[Jariel]

I take the EXACT opposite approach. I keep busy with my life which puts less dependency on women. This way I don't have to stress about rejection or how to do XYZ to win a girl's attention etc. If things don't work out as planned or I find myself single, it's not a big deal as I've still got plenty going on in my life.

I've been in a relationship for a few months now, but only see my GF 2 times per week and reserve the rest of my time for other hobbies/duties/friends. Our relationship is really healthy and stable and still as exciting as when we first met.

Personally I think a lot of guys here place way too much pressure on themselves to get women, get too fired up and it makes their behaviour a little needy and offputting.

Relax, take things at your own pace and it will all come right.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

Having a social life and doing sports/excersize increases my confidence because it shows i have a life, that people like me and that i am in good shape. When i talk to girls, i can do so confidentaly. If i sat at home doing nothing, i would feel like a looser, and so when i talked to girls, i would not be confident.

 

[skip2mylou781]

hey i didnt say do this forever, i meant more like try it out for a few days, and this is only for those guys who FEAR talkign to women.....this whole boredom this is a way to "tough love" the fear away and give the guys no choice btu to work on their game and improve their socializing skills....after all, tv, internet, ect isnt socialing....but goin out and talking to people IS.....get the point? Make your life boring, but then go otu and socialize and talk to girls and have fun, that will deff make ur life NOT boring, but this cant be achieved unless a guy is FEARLESS....and being bored will kill the fear......jsut imagine, if you are somewhere and ur naturally a guy who would NEVER talk to a girl....and lets say there r 3 girls across the room from u but u r so goddamn bored for over 30 minutes now, dont u think the boredom will make u go and talk and try to pick up those girls due to sheer boredom?

this is where i get my idea....and for those who have too much fear to ever talk to women, this will help greatly......anyone who is good with the ladies, THIS DOES NOT APPLY TO lol

 

[skip2mylou781]

all u guys that replied to my post so far, u seem like ur all set with the ladies, so i dont blame u for not agreeing with me....keep in mind, there ARE losers out there who watch too much tv, spend too much online, and basically dotn go out cuz they FEAR meeting women due to confidence problems and wat not, and this post is for THEM. This kind of boredom approach will inspire a loser to develop some freakin game.....u guys understand wat i mean?

lol so basically this post is to help all the losers out there, not to help all u pimps cuz u all got ur **** straight already

 

[Hawke]

skip, you want to inspire guys, help them to get over their fear of approaching, and that's admirable. Yet just stop for a moment and consider some alternative methods to doing just that. Or perhaps work out how this method achieves that.

Refine it, make it more powerful.

 

[Bourne]

Not good.

Telling us to become bored as a motivational approach will not work. Its almost like saying dress poorly, avoid eye contact and become shy will make you want to do the opposite later on.