"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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amnbyrd

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Ive been going out with this girl for a week or two. Regularly having sex also. Anyways Ive been thinking about how Ive never had a LTR and wondered why-until I realized why. Its because after about a of going out with a girl I get bored with her and she starts to annoy the sh!t outta me. Im not at all obsessed with sex either btw so its not that. Anyways I plan on breaking things off with this girl since Im bored/not happy with things. Anyone else find themselves bored easily with girls after only a short time?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just wait until you are bored of being alone and jerking off. You will miss her alot more.
 

marinetti

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well, the point of forums like this are to have a wider variety of girls, so whatever makes you happy.

you are only 20. and in texas! party central.
 
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