"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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datkid55

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How do u guys usually go about hitting up a girl for a booty call. Are Sending texts like "what are u doing" or "wanna hang"late at night pretty commonplace. Im pretty new to this so im just trying to g st a feel for what most people do. Anyway the problem for me making booty calls lies within the problem that i live at home with my parents and all the girls that i can bang have their own places, so im pretty much relying on them having me over their place.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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khadd909

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go like hey you free tonight im thinking pass by yours and get a movie that we both can watch let me know if you interested ....once she knows the deal yo can then only txt her wanna hang tonight thats all it took me ...once i even sent hang ? lol

goodluck
 

Uncharted

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Text "hey someone gave me a bottle of (whatever) lets drink and watch a movie"

If she responds positively just say "ok I'll come by"

If she doesn't she's not interested, so text the next one.
 

SmooveMooves

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Assume attraction.

Don't ask her to hangout, allow her to hang out with you.

You: Hey wanna come to my place for a drink tonight?

(No-no, the balls in her court)

Better You: Hey i have a bottle of Jack with your name on it, I know you don't wanna miss out

(The balls still in her court, but what you've done now is ASSUME ATTRACTION)

Remember to always assume attraction, and rather than ask for time, suggest or demand it.

Good luck brogod.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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