"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Booty Calls - How Does My Friend Do It?

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RockaRolla25

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My friend has been in a relationship for a few years now. Recently at his job, he has been telling me he has been hooking up with a girl who has a boyfriend.

Here's the story:

He tells me that sometimes at night she will text him and be like "come over." He will then drive over and hook up with her in the car in front of her house. He told me he would say "Where's your boyfriend?" and she would be like "oh he's inside asleep right now. Don't worry about him." And then they f.uck in the car and do foreplay etc etc etc. Then he just leaves and goes back home and she goes back inside to her unsuspecting sleeping boyfriend.

How can someone get to this point as a Don Juan? Neither her boyfriend or my friend's girlfriend have ever found out about this.

I ask my friend how he does this and he just says "I don't know. It just kinda happens once in a while, not every day."

So since he's not really telling me his secrets, I'm asking you guys:

Does anyone have experience doing the exact same thing my friend is doing right now? If you have experience, how do you pull this off? Is my friend just a natural Don Juan? Or did he just "luck out" and found a s.lut? Also, why is my friend and her so comfortable with this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dont you know that once you have a public girlfriend you suddenly become more attractive to teh other ladies and many of them will help you cheat on your girlfriend
 
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Tiguere said:
dont you know that once you have a public girlfriend you suddenly become more attractive to teh other ladies and many of them will help you cheat on your girlfriend
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But they are both in relationships. So this means that my friend does not love his girlfriend even though he tells me he does. It also probably means the girl doesn't love her boyfriend.

Or it could just be a lack of respect. But, you can't love someone without respecting them. So, why do they fool around and stay in their relationships without changing?
 
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Probably the chick is coo coo for coco puffs (i.e. Cluster B). That's how.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have been in a FB relationship like this. Its always on her terms though, and the sex can be very intermittant. Its annoying when you get flaked on, I wouldn't recommend it. Irregular sex = blue balls!
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My friend is in a relationship though so he doesn't take it as a big deal if she doesn't text him for a while. He still has sex with his girlfriend.

But my point is, how do you even get to this point as a Don Juan?

When you hear some advice on this site, some of it contradicts.

Example:

Don't ask a girl out when you see her. You'll be like every other lame guy who tries to kiss her a.ss.

Vs.

You have to ask her out you fool! Otherwise you will be friendzoned.
 
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Rock,

What I take from this is your buddy is in a relationship, and you are single. Women that want to cheat often will seek out a man that is "taken" rather than single. First, the taboo that both parties are cheating makes her wet. Second, on an unconscious level, a guy who is taken is more attractive to her, and she doesn't have to worry about him getting too clingy. It can be JUST about s*x since both parties are taken.

So it's NOT that your buddy has some magic powers or is using some "trick" that you aren't. It's the fact that he's taken (and probably decent to good looking) that is working for him.
 
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Mike32ct said:
Rock,

What I take from this is your buddy is in a relationship, and you are single. Women that want to cheat often will seek out a man that is "taken" rather than single. First, the taboo that both parties are cheating makes her wet. Second, on an unconscious level, a guy who is taken is more attractive to her, and she doesn't have to worry about him getting too clingy. It can be JUST about s*x since both parties are taken.

So it's NOT that your buddy has some magic powers or is using some "trick" that you aren't. It's the fact that he's taken (and probably decent to good looking) that is working for him.
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This is probably why he has been telling me to get "a girlfriend that I don't really like" and I'll be able to get the more attractive women with less work just because I'm taken. He did tell me it's a lot easier to pull tail when you have a girlfriend.

He also said "it's sick, disturbing, weird, and psychotic, but that's life. "
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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RockaRolla25 said:
This is probably why he has been telling me to get "a girlfriend that I don't really like" and I'll be able to get the more attractive women with less work just because I'm taken. He did tell me it's a lot easier to pull tail when you have a girlfriend.

He also said "it's sick, disturbing, weird, and psychotic, but that's life. "
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Having at least ONE girl makes you a seemingly more desirable male. No girls means you are not desirable at all.
 
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