glass half full
Master Don Juan
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I'm fresh out of a twenty year relationship, and i am curious as to how to set up situations with women that give them booty call status. I gotta know this
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
booty call
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Greasy Pig
Master Don Juan
Welcome! First thing you must do - before you so anything else - is read the DJ Bible and any other sticky threads at the top of the various forums.
This will answer most of your questions but then feel free to ask something you're still unsure of.
After 20 years off the market, my only advice is to get out there and start meeting new women. That's the best school you can get.
This will answer most of your questions but then feel free to ask something you're still unsure of.
After 20 years off the market, my only advice is to get out there and start meeting new women. That's the best school you can get.
PackDaddy
Don Juan
Hey glass half full, it's really cool to see that you're not imploding like a lot of people do after a 20 year LTR. Seems like you're the type to not let that hold you back. That's refreshing.
Best of luck man. Keep that up!
Best of luck man. Keep that up!