Booty call text while with another girl

[lifeislearning]

Here's to you greathornedowl, I have the same thoughts about the forum's current state.

Been dating this specific girl steadily for the past two months, easy to hang out with, fun, great conversation, and loving so good she could teach a class on it. There have been a smattering of other flings since then, and one other girl in specific who is batsh!t crazy, but so fun, unpredictable, and interesting that spending time with her is worth the craziness.

The other day I'm doing some late night cooking with girl 1 and I get the infamous "Are you awake?" text of booty call legends from girl 2. Being 3:30 in the morning girl 1 is curious, but I play it off on a prankster buddy, and we do our thing.

Have been spending time with girl 2 recently after a leave of absence for a few weeks, but things have been a little weird this time around. Before it was almost constant sex, but now she is hesitant and actually cried once because "All everyone wants to do is have sex with me!"

Do I acknowledge the booty call and try to salvage the situation with girl 2 or has my tango with this crazy come to an end?

AFC answers will be ridiculed unceasingly :trouble:

 

[Ease]

Keep girl 2 on but dont get caught.

Dont make the mistake of getting lazy and fall into a comfortable pattern with steady girl 1, that will lead to inevitable problems with her later.

Crazy girl on the side keeps the mind and body at harmony.

 

[Kal0051]

I think your hurting girl 2 and you have to choose between her and girl 1. Don't string her along for sex anymore, either break up with girl 1 and be with girl 2 or tell girl 2 to move on. How would you feel if some girl only wanted you for sex?



/sarcasm lol


Now all jokes aside, I don't know what u should do. The only thing I will say is girl 2's crying fit wasn't about other guys only wanting her for sex, it was about you only wanting her for sex. So most likely she's looking for more and u may not be able to keep this going for much longer without drama from girl 2.

 

[lifeislearning]

Haha Kal, I do know that girl 2 has thought of me as a very likely boyfriend candidate from the get go, but while I do enjoy the intensity she runs at, she is just too damn nuts to ever be my girlfriend.

Contrary to popular thought I never keep a girl solely for sexual gratification. They all have something to add to your life to make it more interesting, enjoyable, and beneficial for you. You just need to be sure they don't get too caught up in relationship crap to do it.

And a spare crazy is nice to have too.

Question specifically was: Can an unanswered booty call be redeemed?

 

[Kal0051]

Question specifically was: Can an unanswered booty call be redeemed?

oh, just tell her you were sleeping and didn't get her message that night. It was 3:30 am so your excuse would be understandable.

 

[Rescue Mission]

when you are with a girl, ALWAYS keep your phone on silent - keep the mystery alive, as well as avoid having to explain yourself. Also, this prevents you from ever getting caught playing these girls.