Booty Call help.. Diff kind of situation

[HustlerDigital]

Hey fellow DJ's..

Have a lil diff situation or prob. Was with a girl for 6 years and we broke up ... decided to move on etc. Shes a "good" girl.. and as time went on she got tired of being single and hooked up with someone. DESPITE us both admiting we have feelings for each other still. I just wasnt ready and am enjoying this single life too much. Also.. we just couldnt get along. We tried to hook back up again.. but we both were too insecure and kept bringing up things that had happened after we broke up. I myself know Im over all that.. its been a year now and my confidence and security has soared since then.

Anyways.. she was with this guy for 10 months.. thought it was the best thing ever.. thought she had everything... then bam.. the break up. She pretty much threw all her friends out and said I dont party no more.. and completely did a 180. 3 weeks have passed and she has begun to email me...and starting to talk to her "old" friends again and beginning to go out to bars and such.

My question is this. How do i handle this.. where I can be with her OCCASIONALLY but not get the idea of BF/GF. I basically want a booty call but not really in the dirty way of calling it a booty call. Just hitting it once more would be great.. I WOULD LOVE THAT...but I know with her... it will take a lot of work. Shes close to a 10.. and shes one of those tease good girls..and being we had a past together and then it went sour.. it would be hard to get her to the point of just having occasional sex. I know if I came out and said "I wanna work on us.." I could do it that way, but I really dont want it that way.. because if she has that idea and she finds Im talking to some other girl.. its over.

Thanks for you time and help

 

[TheOneAndONLYDJ]

Digital..

Hey bud.. looks like you have a unique but interesting situation on your hands. How many of us out their were with long-term gf's...the ones we have said "I love you" too.. and MEANT it...and we lost them???? Those girls we loved to have sex with.. and then bam its over.. only to remember the last time we had sex with them was great.. but if we woulda known it was our last time...we would of made it even better!!!

You want her to remember and lust for you even more it seems like. You want to get her in bed and F her brains out so when she goes to any other man in the future she compares them to YOU.

Not such a bad or un-normal thing to go for in my opinion...cause Im right there with you with a couple ex's I had.

Now how to get it.. I wonder if their are any articles in the DK Bible pertaining to this?? If I had more time before heading to work I would look/search for some but I cant....Im pretty sure someone who is interested in this will look and post for all of us.

Question... If you could go back to this girl.. and it would WORK.. would you be with her? I cant help to think..by reading your post.. that you would. I noticed you said it wouldnt work which gives you an objection.. but what if it did work?? Just curious on your answer there.

Ill check up later at work and when i get home and hopefully other people will have posted by then. Untill then.. be patient and lets get a good answer for you.. and all others interested in this.

Peace
1 and ONLY

 

[BrotherAP]

She's emailing you. Checking up. Sniffing around. Casting out the bait. Will you take it?

I've been you. I've moved on from a girl, only to have her lurking in the back of my head. Always in my mind, in one way or another. 6 years is a long time to forget about somebody. Especially somebody who seemed so significant at the time.

Those feelings will come back. They will play with her head, and they will play with yours. It's over because it went sour. Just think about that. History tends to repeat itself. It's best to leave girls from your past right where they are - in your past.

If you absolutely must have her again, though, short and simple does best. Tell her it's been too long since you've seen each other, and invite her over to your place for some dinner to catch up. From there, you should know what to do. You dated her for 6 years, there's not a taboo topic between the two of you. Just kiss her like you used to, and the flood of emotions you create in her, the rush of romantic memories along with the feeling of a first kiss all over again will have both of your heads spinning.

You are playing with fire. You have been warned.


BrotherAP

 

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You were with her for 6 years and you still see her as almost a 10? how could she not even barely drop a single point after all this time? did she never fart or take a dump or something? This smells like ONEITIS disguised as an offhand attempt at gaining a FB.

Was her cvnt seriously that good that it has to be THIS particular b!tch? Did you know there are 3 billion more vaginas at your disposal? Surely one of them is as good as hers.

 

[HustlerDigital]

LoL.. last post made me laugh.

Im not a ***** though.. I get girls and love the attention but Im not a one night stand type guy. 1ANDONLY got it right.. I want her to remember me forever.

And yes.. shes almost a 10 even after all this time. Shes got dudes all over her trying to be with her now that shes single. Shes "theres something about mary" typer girl. Everyone wants to be with her.. etc etc.

Im not saying I want to hit it and quit it... I just want the chance to have AT LEAST one more go with her... I guess maybe YES.. I might even go further if things work. I know Im playing with fire like the one post said... But i know Id be fine even if it failed. I couldnt say that a year.. or two years back. I just want to try it once more.. the problem is getting her to try it with me.. without her knowing what Im trying to do. Its odd and kinda weird.. but I guess I have feelings for her still and I just dont know what to do about them. I still hang with her old friends.. who she doesnt talk to anymore. I have had good relationships.. but they didnt meet the needs I got from her. I dont want to hurt her..and Im hoping shes got a lot more secure about things then how she was in the past.