"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bootcamps for communication skills

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Hi All,

I think the current bootcamp is good for people who want to 'pickup' girls so long as that's their main goal. I'm actually interested in improving my overall attitude, personal mindset, confidence and communication skills.

The current bootcamp is more designed for people who want themselves to come across as a seductive style confidence. Like staring in their eyes for the extra second, etc. I'm more interested in learning steps on how people went from being shy, uncomfortable to changing their mindset so they're more naturally confident, charismatic. Someone who can light up a room, and people enjoy their company.

I think this would benefit a huge number of people. TBH the main reason I'm here is for this goal as this mindset rewrite would obviously improve my interactions with women.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I completely agree with you. I am undertaking a masterclass with a guy called Harlequin for that exact reason. It's twice the price of an RSD bootcamp but I get six days one on one tuition and he has said that it would improve my interactions with all people. So far it has and I've done 4 days. I don't believe pickup is just about women. This is about improving our social dynamics skills to interact with all people better including women.
 
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Going out an socializing while also working on yourself on an identity level is your answer. All of the new RSD products are amazing for this. A simple bootcamp would be to go out and talk to 10 new people everyday. Do that for a year and see how different you come across at the end of the year.
 
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EFFORT said:
Going out an socializing while also working on yourself on an identity level is your answer. All of the new RSD products are amazing for this. A simple bootcamp would be to go out and talk to 10 new people everyday. Do that for a year and see how different you come across at the end of the year.
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ditto, couldn't have said it better myself.

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