"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bootcamp

amoka

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How do I start a bootcamp? Where is the best bootcamp?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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nonchalant

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i'm in my 5th week of bootcamp. i started with 40 guys, we are now down to 4 or 5 guys. everybody bails by week 4.

my suggestion to you is to do it on your own like Walden did- do it alone, don't rely on other people to do it with you. when other people drop out it will make it harder for you to stay strong and stick to your guns. read the boot camp manual, and search for 'Walden boot camp'. it's a very inspirational thread.
 

wunnaBsmooth

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I'll jump in there.

If you guys wanna get a boot camp going, I'll get in. I've read the bible a few times and have already done some of the work. But maybe I can get it right if I do it again......lmao
 

amoka

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The Phonix said:
I started one yesterday, we can join forces if you want
I plan on starting one tomorrow. Post the link to yours for the rest of us to see.

WannaBSmooth said:
If you guys wanna get a boot camp going, I'll get in. I've read the bible a few times and have already done some of the work.
Mine is going to start tomorrow. The Phonix is going to post the link to the one he start so we can all use his thread.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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amoka

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nonchalant said:
i'm in my 5th week of bootcamp. i started with 40 guys, we are now down to 4 or 5 guys. everybody bails by week 4.

my suggestion to you is to do it on your own like Walden did- do it alone, don't rely on other people to do it with you. when other people drop out it will make it harder for you to stay strong and stick to your guns. read the boot camp manual, and search for 'Walden boot camp'. it's a very inspirational thread.
Thanks
 

Vulpine

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amoka said:
Where is the best bootcamp?
The Army's was pretty lame, I thought, compared to what I heard the Marines go through. But, I was pretty hardcore. HOOOAH!

amoka said:
How do I start a bootcamp?
Go see your local Marine recruiter, they'll set you up.
 

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Alright all of you,
I will be starting the thread for the BootCamp.

The Thread will be Called BootCamp -Clan of the Phoenix

Reporting will be on thurdays, I'll post all the guidelines there.

Cheers,
 
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