"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bootcamp Week#4: Lets Get Rejected!!!...

Swoop

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Swoop reporting for duty. I'm all ready to get rejected. You know the whole last week I spent alot of time scouting my city to find targets to get rejected. I have like a handful of targets right now. The hard part will be to catch them when they are working.

I better prepare my ego for this type of punishment. It's gonna be brutal haha
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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This sounds like fun--I'll incorporate the convo's that I wasn't able to do last week in this week--I think I have 5 more to go. I've been extremely busy--and I ended up visiting my aunt yesterday, so, yeah--no luck there either.

Either way, I can't wait to get rejected!!
 

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back when I was in early teen, I remember sometime guys talking to me for no reason on the street. I wonder if they are doing boot camp:cool:
 

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yo i havent participated but i want to start now at week 4 with you guys..is that cool?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey! Where did you Week 3 thread go?


I saw a Week 3 thread posted by some other user so I didn't think it was for the same bootcamp! I'm still working on that assignment so let me know where it's at and I'll try to catch up!


P.s. Is it all right if I do like 3 assignments in one week? I may have unintentionally talked to 10 random strangers but I don't think I really fulfilled the mission (at least not IMO) because I didn't make it a point to ask so many questions and for a FR. If that's ok, then I guess I can pass on week 2 or just combine it with Week 3. Regardless, I definetly need to do Week 3 and I HOPE I can still stay in this even though I've been falling a bit behind.
 

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Oopps double posted--But yeah, I'm definetly back in this thing But I guess I need to work on Time-managment skills too ;)
 

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Thanks a lot Shezzler,

I think Week 3 & 4 are pretty much the pivotal points anyways since that's when you start talking to girls. The first 2 weeks are just basic social skills with strangers. Anyways, I'll get to work and try post FR's now. I can ressurect Week 3 if you want or post FR for both on this thread
 

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one rejection - Isreali chick trying to sell me a 3d puzzle at mall kiosk.

one number - Leaving a bar at closing time. I talked to 2 girls who go to a bible college. Gave the one who was smoking a hard time. She is probably 10 years younger than me. Life is good :D

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Im still in but Im kinda busy right now.


busy gaming a college chic
 

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Just out of curiosity Shezzler, can you let us know how many people have made it to week 4 and how many people started out in the beginning?
 

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FR: Week 4, Monday

I got 1 rejection. Went to the bank to deposite money. There was a girl behind me in line. I chat with her a little. Then after I got my transaction finish. It took me a few minutes to work up enough courage to approach her. The stuff that enters your mind and trying to tell you not to do it is very hard to overcome, now I understand why the 3 sec rule is in place, your mind can be your enemy sometimes. I kept picturing all the people around will watch me get shot downm and it will be humiliating. Anyways, I knew if I didnt go and approach this girl I will be kicking myself for being so wussy. So I went up to her and whisper,, "Are you she single?". She said "aaahhh, sorry, I'm not.. I have a boyfriend." One thing that suprise me was, the rejection wasn't bad. I was pretty much at ease when I got shot down. Funny thing was she was very suprised and her face was blushing big time. haha I just smile at her and walk off.

So that's 1 down, 9 more rejection to go.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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2 rejections. One just walked away from me although it was not totally rude. The other one was a chic I was chatting in the library, and then when I ask her to meet again she said she has a bf. I said "Really? When's the wedding?" She laughed then said "He might get angry" So I just said, "ok nice meeting you Tin" because Im feeling kinda sick I wouldnt want to stay around. :rock:
 

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Joining In

I have missed whenever everyone has been doing bootcamp so I guess I will jump in also on this one. I think this can only help me. I am gonna get right on it!!
 

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Another rejection at lunch yesterday. See a hot young thing that keeps checking me out. I go to her table on the way out. She is dining with her mom. after a brief introduction,I suggest we do coffee . She says she is only 17........I am 31. I knew it was a high probability rejection because of the mom......8 more to go.

fan27
 

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Originally posted by fan27
Another rejection at lunch yesterday. See a hot young thing that keeps checking me out. I go to her table on the way out. She is dining with her mom. after a brief introduction,I suggest we do coffee . She says she is only 17........I am 31. I knew it was a high probability rejection because of the mom......8 more to go.

fan27
:crackup:
 

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yo i havent participated but i want to start now at week 4 with you guys..is that cool?

You can

IF YOUR UPTO THE CHALLENGE?
Yeh fvck it, i'm up for this, i'm joining too starting tomorrow!

Btw, are you guys only counting the tallies if you actually end up getting rejected? ie. are you counting successful number closes or whatever?
Seems a bit daft to me if failure's rewarded (in terms of the bootcamp) but success isn't - know what i mean?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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