rushing dude 123
Master Don Juan
alright i got to week 4 and the task is to get 10 rejections, at the moment i think i totally suck with girls STILL, i jus can't close most of the time and when i try or do it goes bad. At this point guys i think i need ur opinion on my approaches, because i know i am doing a lot of things wrong. alright anyway the rules for these rejections is:
1. the girls has to b attractive.
2. they have to b number close nothing else
3. the convosation should last 2 minutes + preferably, but thats optional.
4. to make sure i don't stick to same venue, i can only do 3 at maximum at one venue. (work included this time)
Alright so i will tell u the rejections i got today among my chicken outs has well.
11/01/08
Alright i am in college doing my chemistry exam and i c three hb examiners and i didn't try it on with any of them afterward, sooooo i suck and then i see some girls who go to my 6th form (seeing i only go 3 hours a week i don't know anyone really here besides people in my class), i don't approach and some other random guys in school approach them.
I am pretty pissed about this, but its time for work, so i get ready and go to my work, which is a bowling alley/bar. Alright first girl i c is a maybe 16 yr old girl with one guy a older woman and kid, not knowing if she was with the guy i started chatting family and got to really know them, but i was pretty cold to the girl saying she had no honour with the barriers up and she had attitude. The family was really nice and i kinda cudn't get any rappot with her, due to her attitude. For this i should of maybe not be so harsh with girl maybe come across a bit nicer, but not to nice......
After this i see a chick with a group shes like idk 28 and i start chatting to her about bowling and then turn subject to where shes from and then to that she sells cars, So later on i was like hook me up with a car, i kept approaching her little by little, but didn't make a move, which was my mistake, then she left with her ear to mobile, so i didn't approach. I should of jus made the move in 1-2 approaches.
Next girl is a girl who was closing her bar tab and i just started chatting to her, asking if she was with the party on lane 3-4
Hb: no i am on lane 10
Rd: O u r a work party i am guessing
Hb: yep
RD: where do u work?
HB: insurance
RD: o there was a insurance company on that lane 1 hour ago, did u come back
HB: o no we r ......(can't remember name of company)
RD: ah i c that was the enemy
HB: yes, (smiles)
(friend lost her credit card and searching draws)
RD: ah don't worry we will find it
(i am messing with her that my friend lost it, but i think i came across desperate body language wise and this is where i think my game goes down)
(he finds it and gives it to her)
RD: see we were jus playing we didn't really lose it
HB: thank you (she exits)
(i leave bar and run up to her from behind)
RD: so whats ur name?
HB: why?
RD: why is it a bad name like steve or something?
HB: yep
RD: wow thats cold.....
(leaves)
alright same random american chick in university walks to bar, so i chat to her about her accent
Hb american: I was in america at 5 and i then came here, but i go quite often for family, so i keeps accent still.
Rd: ah i c, so what u do here?
Hb: i do psychology
RD o what does it tell about me.
HB: (smiles) everyone says that, but its not that easy.
(Anyway she talks like a lot about studys and i am not listening really)
HB: have a nice night alright, bye. (she exits)
(runs up from bar to her from behind jus like other one and i thought that i should instead ask number first before name)
RD: hey is there a number i can reach u at?
Hb: i have a bf
RD: whens the wedding?
HB: ( smiles and laughs) ur good
RD: o alright ( hugs and kisses her on cheek) c ya later anyway
rj=1
I wud of asked her number at bar, but a girl working there was leaning over listening carefully to our convo. So asking number first didn't work and neither did name. Meaning something else was wrong, maybe running up behind was wrong or maybe i should of said, "hey can i talk to u for one second, i think ur kind of interesting is there a number i can reach u at?" or same but instead of interesting something like "i got to go on break".
Next approach me and my friend were like there is two girls on couch drinking, we need to approach them jus for the hell of it even though its going to go bad.
(i see them ordering drink at bar from my friend)
RD: hey i am jus wondering how old r u girls?
HB 1: 18
HB 2: 19
HB 1: How old r u?
RD: guess
HB 1: 17, idk u got like a baby face
RD: if i was 17 i wudn't b working here and u girls look like ur like 16.
HB 2: o maybe we need to take u outside and beat u up(smiling)
RD: If u want to go lets go (smiling)
(my friend takes one i talk to the other)
RD : so whats this ? (goes to touch chain on her chest, but she moves bit back)
Hb 1: says some random **** what it is
Rd: what does it represent
Hb 1: idk
RD: how can u wear something that dosn't mean anything
(more talk and i end up getting her in arm wrestle with her two hands verus my one and if she beats me she gets free drink)
The other one tries to help her, but i pin them down
RD: so what do i get for beating u
Hb 1 : a smile
RD: thats not worth nothing, buy me a drink
Hb 1: no u get me one
(by this time my friend agreed to get the other a drink)
HB 1: o come on he got her a drink
Rd: nope i don't give a girl a drink if she jus flutters her eye lashes,
HB 1: if u gives us a drink we wud give u our numbers
Rd: no how about if u give me a drink i will give u my number (don't do that ever again jordan lol...)
Hb's: (give strange look) nah we r alright.
RD: o how often do u get free drinks a lot (to hb 2)
Hb 2: o a lot
(friend has Hb 1 who lost interest in me bugging him to get her one has well)
Hb 2: This is my first night out since i was pregnant from 3 weeks ago, look at how slim i got. (Shows me pic of baby)
Rd: ah nice
hb 2: don't tell him i have a baby
RD: So wheres the baby now
hb 2: with her dad
Rd: ah i c
they leave and i tell my friend she has baby and i see them later on....
Rd : my friend wants his drink back, seeing he didn't know u had baby
Hb 2: (mimics putting her fingers in mouth and throwing up and smiles)
Me and my friend chat to her has the other 1 stays round corner calling someone.
J: so why didn't u tell me u had baby?
Hb: well the father is a kinda of scum bag and always doing skunk, i need a mature man
J: O like me yeh....
Rd: hey why don't u give him ur number so he can call u and u can see what u think.
HB 2: he can giv me his number
RD: haha no thats not how its done, u give him ur number
Hb 2: (gives him number)
Hb 1: O hey, we like this one (hugs j)
RD: yeh i know u wud probablly b my best friends if i got u a drink
Hb 1: will u?
RD: no way ur a gold digger....
Hb 1: no i am not
(we talk and i found out she works, in a bank, so is start teasing her to give me some money from her job)
Rd: anyways gotta go so c ya later ( kisses girls on cheeks and the one with little interest even hugs me)
i didn't go for hb 1, because i was pretty sure this time round i wudn't get close and it wud make him look bad.
ok anyways last approach, random girl off street (did this for joke) walking "yo baby, whats ur number"....i got blanked lmao
rj= 2
i said to my friend we have to get 10 rejections and one of them has to b a yo baby whats ur number lol.
Anyways guys give me feedback, i feel i am totally bad at this and want to get some actual closes during this process.
2/10 rejections
1. the girls has to b attractive.
2. they have to b number close nothing else
3. the convosation should last 2 minutes + preferably, but thats optional.
4. to make sure i don't stick to same venue, i can only do 3 at maximum at one venue. (work included this time)
Alright so i will tell u the rejections i got today among my chicken outs has well.
11/01/08
Alright i am in college doing my chemistry exam and i c three hb examiners and i didn't try it on with any of them afterward, sooooo i suck and then i see some girls who go to my 6th form (seeing i only go 3 hours a week i don't know anyone really here besides people in my class), i don't approach and some other random guys in school approach them.
I am pretty pissed about this, but its time for work, so i get ready and go to my work, which is a bowling alley/bar. Alright first girl i c is a maybe 16 yr old girl with one guy a older woman and kid, not knowing if she was with the guy i started chatting family and got to really know them, but i was pretty cold to the girl saying she had no honour with the barriers up and she had attitude. The family was really nice and i kinda cudn't get any rappot with her, due to her attitude. For this i should of maybe not be so harsh with girl maybe come across a bit nicer, but not to nice......
After this i see a chick with a group shes like idk 28 and i start chatting to her about bowling and then turn subject to where shes from and then to that she sells cars, So later on i was like hook me up with a car, i kept approaching her little by little, but didn't make a move, which was my mistake, then she left with her ear to mobile, so i didn't approach. I should of jus made the move in 1-2 approaches.
Next girl is a girl who was closing her bar tab and i just started chatting to her, asking if she was with the party on lane 3-4
Hb: no i am on lane 10
Rd: O u r a work party i am guessing
Hb: yep
RD: where do u work?
HB: insurance
RD: o there was a insurance company on that lane 1 hour ago, did u come back
HB: o no we r ......(can't remember name of company)
RD: ah i c that was the enemy
HB: yes, (smiles)
(friend lost her credit card and searching draws)
RD: ah don't worry we will find it
(i am messing with her that my friend lost it, but i think i came across desperate body language wise and this is where i think my game goes down)
(he finds it and gives it to her)
RD: see we were jus playing we didn't really lose it
HB: thank you (she exits)
(i leave bar and run up to her from behind)
RD: so whats ur name?
HB: why?
RD: why is it a bad name like steve or something?
HB: yep
RD: wow thats cold.....
(leaves)
alright same random american chick in university walks to bar, so i chat to her about her accent
Hb american: I was in america at 5 and i then came here, but i go quite often for family, so i keeps accent still.
Rd: ah i c, so what u do here?
Hb: i do psychology
RD o what does it tell about me.
HB: (smiles) everyone says that, but its not that easy.
(Anyway she talks like a lot about studys and i am not listening really)
HB: have a nice night alright, bye. (she exits)
(runs up from bar to her from behind jus like other one and i thought that i should instead ask number first before name)
RD: hey is there a number i can reach u at?
Hb: i have a bf
RD: whens the wedding?
HB: ( smiles and laughs) ur good
RD: o alright ( hugs and kisses her on cheek) c ya later anyway
rj=1
I wud of asked her number at bar, but a girl working there was leaning over listening carefully to our convo. So asking number first didn't work and neither did name. Meaning something else was wrong, maybe running up behind was wrong or maybe i should of said, "hey can i talk to u for one second, i think ur kind of interesting is there a number i can reach u at?" or same but instead of interesting something like "i got to go on break".
Next approach me and my friend were like there is two girls on couch drinking, we need to approach them jus for the hell of it even though its going to go bad.
(i see them ordering drink at bar from my friend)
RD: hey i am jus wondering how old r u girls?
HB 1: 18
HB 2: 19
HB 1: How old r u?
RD: guess
HB 1: 17, idk u got like a baby face
RD: if i was 17 i wudn't b working here and u girls look like ur like 16.
HB 2: o maybe we need to take u outside and beat u up(smiling)
RD: If u want to go lets go (smiling)
(my friend takes one i talk to the other)
RD : so whats this ? (goes to touch chain on her chest, but she moves bit back)
Hb 1: says some random **** what it is
Rd: what does it represent
Hb 1: idk
RD: how can u wear something that dosn't mean anything
(more talk and i end up getting her in arm wrestle with her two hands verus my one and if she beats me she gets free drink)
The other one tries to help her, but i pin them down
RD: so what do i get for beating u
Hb 1 : a smile
RD: thats not worth nothing, buy me a drink
Hb 1: no u get me one
(by this time my friend agreed to get the other a drink)
HB 1: o come on he got her a drink
Rd: nope i don't give a girl a drink if she jus flutters her eye lashes,
HB 1: if u gives us a drink we wud give u our numbers
Rd: no how about if u give me a drink i will give u my number (don't do that ever again jordan lol...)
Hb's: (give strange look) nah we r alright.
RD: o how often do u get free drinks a lot (to hb 2)
Hb 2: o a lot
(friend has Hb 1 who lost interest in me bugging him to get her one has well)
Hb 2: This is my first night out since i was pregnant from 3 weeks ago, look at how slim i got. (Shows me pic of baby)
Rd: ah nice
hb 2: don't tell him i have a baby
RD: So wheres the baby now
hb 2: with her dad
Rd: ah i c
they leave and i tell my friend she has baby and i see them later on....
Rd : my friend wants his drink back, seeing he didn't know u had baby
Hb 2: (mimics putting her fingers in mouth and throwing up and smiles)
Me and my friend chat to her has the other 1 stays round corner calling someone.
J: so why didn't u tell me u had baby?
Hb: well the father is a kinda of scum bag and always doing skunk, i need a mature man
J: O like me yeh....
Rd: hey why don't u give him ur number so he can call u and u can see what u think.
HB 2: he can giv me his number
RD: haha no thats not how its done, u give him ur number
Hb 2: (gives him number)
Hb 1: O hey, we like this one (hugs j)
RD: yeh i know u wud probablly b my best friends if i got u a drink
Hb 1: will u?
RD: no way ur a gold digger....
Hb 1: no i am not
(we talk and i found out she works, in a bank, so is start teasing her to give me some money from her job)
Rd: anyways gotta go so c ya later ( kisses girls on cheeks and the one with little interest even hugs me)
i didn't go for hb 1, because i was pretty sure this time round i wudn't get close and it wud make him look bad.
ok anyways last approach, random girl off street (did this for joke) walking "yo baby, whats ur number"....i got blanked lmao
rj= 2
i said to my friend we have to get 10 rejections and one of them has to b a yo baby whats ur number lol.
Anyways guys give me feedback, i feel i am totally bad at this and want to get some actual closes during this process.
2/10 rejections
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