"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BootCamp week #3

IS|Reinhart

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Good job Dying for life.

Ok i think i did around 8-9 convos but its still sunday so i will be sarging more. Gona go on a date soon lol rock climbing. But anyway guys let me know where u at so we could adjust our bootcamp it can happen that we will do week 3 again and that's OK. Better slower than quitting. Besides i think that week is FUN when u need to make convo with girls.

"Knowing is not enough. You must APPLY"
"Willing is not enough. You must DO"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mrswabe

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my manila trip

Coming from such a small city from the province I was a bit shocked to see the multitude of people there. So now I know why those other people can get 50 eye contacts and hi's in just one day.

Being in a large city is an advantage. People don't care who you are and they don't look at you. It's much easier to approach. And since there are a lot of beautiful girls to go around, you dont have to worry much about being blown off.

Though I am already on week 3, I believe I have repeated and finished the first 3 weeks in my three days of stay there.

I observed also that the girls there tend to hold eye contact more and is much more easy to be approached.

I plan to move to a bigger city once I finished my schooling and will be working. Working and sarging, that is.
 
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