poohead
Senior Don Juan
20 ecs / 32 his so far
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Bootcamp started May1st, Week #1 - Developing / Conveying Confidence
- Thread starter OceanWindRider
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Hi,
20-30ECs i think...many i "won" means i looked longer as my opponent.
I must annotate that im living in a village with not so much people who walk about outside...
So most of the ECs i made today in a free period while i was in the city.
I also noticed that while making the ECs with men they looking a little bit "aggressive", not all, some of them just looking fast away..and some poeple genreally looking down or sidewards.
For some reasons i didnt get it to say Hi...dont know really why...think someone has to kick me to get me talking
I will try to complete week1 in the next 1-2 days.
In my school are also many HBs, but i have fear to say "Hi" to them, dont want that hey think im an idiot (why is he saying hi, he dont knows me) or something else...while i must go to school for at least one year .. ok, i know it should regardless to me what others think about me....damn fears
20-30ECs i think...many i "won" means i looked longer as my opponent.
I must annotate that im living in a village with not so much people who walk about outside...
So most of the ECs i made today in a free period while i was in the city.
I also noticed that while making the ECs with men they looking a little bit "aggressive", not all, some of them just looking fast away..and some poeple genreally looking down or sidewards.
For some reasons i didnt get it to say Hi...dont know really why...think someone has to kick me to get me talking
I will try to complete week1 in the next 1-2 days.
In my school are also many HBs, but i have fear to say "Hi" to them, dont want that hey think im an idiot (why is he saying hi, he dont knows me) or something else...while i must go to school for at least one year .. ok, i know it should regardless to me what others think about me....damn fears
poohead
Senior Don Juan
Final Results
20 EC's (plus more probably, stopped counting)
50 Hi's
onto week 2
20 EC's (plus more probably, stopped counting)
50 Hi's
onto week 2
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.